Hello fellow travelers. Stay a while… and listen😉

I am a Dominant, with years of experience in dynamics both irl and online only. I am looking for a new submissive to join me in a long-term dynamic that blends play and exploration with emotional connection. I have played a lot with people newer to kink and I am comfortable to be approached by people of all experience levels provided you have enthusiasm and openness.

My style blends daddy and mentor, with a touch of sadism. Therefore, you can expect compassion, strong/frequent communication, nurturing, tailored aftercare, and a focus on growth, with a greater degree of firmness, precise direction, and some impact play to taste. I have played with pleasure seekers, slaves, service subs, brats spankees, etc. I like to think that there is room for all under my umbrella, or within my mind dungeon anyway… I tend to merge my desires with those I play with to ensure we both are getting just what is needed.

Ideally, I am looking for an irl dynamic, but I am open to online only to start or as time progresses. For the latter, I would expect to be playing with someone of focus and consistency – online only is often bedeviled by those who aren’t too serious, and I want to make sure both our time is being invested wisely.

To set a better expectation of what a dynamic will involve from a play perspective, I enjoy (but am not limited to):

Tasking

Edging & denial

Overstimulation

Restraints

Spanking & other forms of impact play – light/medium

Free use & objectification

Toys & insertions

Humiliation/degradation/ praise – in any combination of your enjoyment

Roleplay

Mental Domination

I am fiercely intelligent, articulate, and imaginative. I will appeal to those who see Domination as primarily will and mind based, though I can still throw you around a bit, don’t worry 😉 I tend to be very meticulous during an introduction rather than getting carried away with things. This is to gain as much insight as possible and to work out if we might be a good match. I will not be a good match for those looking to rub one out of an evening. No judgement, enjoy yourselves, but I don’t do freebies 😉

The characteristics I am looking for are enthusiasm, openness (ideas and emotions), strong desires (even if not clear exactly where they sit yet), excellent communication and drive, a close match for kinks, intelligence, and the ability to really listen and hear. Physically speaking my tastes are varied, and I have played with people of various ages and body types. Personality is the most important thing for me to make a connection. Still, will be happy to exchange pictures earlier to ensure mutual attraction exists.

If this sounds tempting to you, please get in touch and we can discuss it in more detail. For everyone else, good luck in your search.

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