Hello! I am 43 and single. I am a pre-op masc-presenting transgender guy (FTM). I started on T recently, so there will be on-going changes. I go by he/him and I am pansexual. I am 5’5”, blue eyes, short brown hair. I am a very fat person, but I am actively losing weight and working on it. I am down 112 pounds so far! I have several tattoos as well as multiple piercings which include my septum, 2 lip rings, and my tongue. Current pictures of me are on my profile.
I would like for us to get to know one another a bit before meeting. I live just north of Kansas City/Gladstone in Smithville, MO. I am looking for local only.
I don’t really have many preferences when it comes to looks or what type of person you are. I am more about the emotional connection and bond. I do tend to get along better with people that are younger than I am, but overall it doesn’t really matter as long as we are compatible.
I do prefer to date someone who is clingy and needs reassurance. I am a very intimate and romantic type person. I love giving attention to and doing things for the person I am with to make them feel special. I love to please my partner in all ways as much as I possibly can. I am a very affectionate and touchy-feely type of person. Meaning I like to put my arms around my partner, hold hands, put my hand on their leg, cuddle, etc.
I do tend to be someone that falls fast and hard. I may be a bit intense for some. I love complimenting and telling my partner how I feel about them. My love language is quality time and physical touch so I like spending as much time as I can with my partner. Although I do also need some alone time. I am mainly hoping for the potential of a monogamous relationship where we can learn and grow together in all ways possible.
Open communication is an extremely important thing to me. I am a very blunt, honest, and upfront kind of person. I would appreciate if you are the same. 420 is a must or at least need to be ok with it.
I do have a high sex drive and I am new to the kink/bdsm community. I am more of a soft Dom type. If you are already into the community, or are interested in exploring those avenues, that would be great. Since I am very much a newbie and just now starting to explore, some patience with me is required. I will go ahead and say that I am not into any degradation/humiliation.
I have a 23-year-old transgender son who just had to move back in with me. I have a full-time job but also own my own business on the side. For hobbies, I do a ton of different crafty type things. My main thing is making chainmaille jewelry which is what I do for my business. I also love to go shopping, especially to thrift stores!
I am really into horror and the macabre. I tend to have a morbid sense of humor at times and I do love to joke and play around. I can be very sarcastic and a smart ass. I can be a bit of a dork and a weirdo. I am very laid back, open minded, and non-judgmental. I prefer that you be as well. There’s not much that can weird me out or offend me lol. I don’t go along with what are considered the ‘societal norms’ when it comes to most things, including relationships.
Send me a message if interested!