The short description of what I'm looking for is a caring l, authentic, kinda while being strict Domme to control my orgasms, keep me on edge and use me as her boytoy play thing.

The more in depth description is that I want someone to control my pleasure and my body. To dictate when I can cum and when I can touch myself and perhaps more importantly when I cannot. I want to be desperate to touch my own body, I want my cock to feel off limits and for the mental chastity you keep me in to be as strong as a locked cock cage would be. I also have a cage for you to lock me in. I want you to keep me horny, keep me aroused, let me get close and then decide I won't be cumming.

What is especially important is that you're a real, genuine person that engages in conversation, gets to know me while I get to know you. Who understands the deeper aspects of D/s and doesn't come out of the gate with name calling or degrading me in the first few messages, who's first line isn't asking what other chat apps I have. Ultimately I would prefer to move from Reddit chat, but not after 5 minutes so you can start asking for a financial tribute. I'm looking for someone I would get along with outside of the dynamic, who also wants to toy with my body and play with me for her entertainment. I'm open to elements of TPE and micromanaging, protocols and rules.

We both have our own lives and this doesn't have to revolve around 24/7 communication. I would obviously follow chastity and denial rules at all times, but I would be into making time for session based play outside of on going rules and guidelines.

I'm looking for something on-going that can be given time to develop so we can settle into a grove that works for us.

I'm open to exchanging SFW photos once we establishe some comfort and trust. I'm a very visual person and enjoy a bit of exhibitionism, so ideally photos would play some role for us at a point we both feel comfortable with.

I'm 6'3" around 190lbs, shortish brown hair, beard, hazel eyes. I grew up playing sports, love to hike, camp and ski. I'm a lifestyle photographer and take my camera everywhere and love any creative outlet. I'd love to talk about TV shows, music, video games, history, computers, comedy, road trips, nature and tons of other topics all while my cock drips precum with the thought you may let me touch myself today.

To plainly list them out, my kinks include but are not limited to bondage, BDSM, FLR, gentle femdom, edging, denial, physical and mental chastity, orgasm control, CFNM, anal, pegging, choking, light pain, light humiliation, light degradation, bladder control, watersports, light TPE, toys and likely more.

Limits are blood, scat, intense pain or humiliation, age regression, cuckolding.