(Important: I’m married so I need a discreet online partner, with possibility for more if we really connect.)

My previous forays into the darker corners of the internet have familiarized me with BDSM, but only recently did a partner reveal how many of my inclinations align with its spectrum.

I predominantly identify as a dom, though I could occasionally switch roles with the right partner. At the heart of it, my joy comes from ensuring your pleasure. When your desires align with being overwhelmingly dominated, it's a perfect match for us. My preferences include things like forced orgasm, roughness, spanking, hair pulling, and dirty talk, to name a few.

I also enjoy more understated forms of domination, like deciding your outfit. I'm still learning the specific terms, so this isn't an exhaustive list.

In terms of physical preferences, I don't have a strict type, but I do need a partner who is HWP. I have a preference for petite women, but it's not a major one. As long as you're not significantly taller than me (I’m 5'11"), I'm open. My attractions are diverse, from artsy to professional types, but intelligence is key.

I thrive on having someone to indulge in all manners of pleasure, both sexual and intellectual. The cycle of mutual gratification is exhilarating for me.

While I exhibit some "daddy" tendencies, I prefer a mature, adult partner. I appreciate an equal who can share the effort, yet I'm not opposed to an age gap if you're mature and thoughtful. My style of domination is more organic and subtle, favoring physical control over the use of explicit tools.

Here's a bit more about me:

Firstly, I'm seeking a mature, discreet partner for a fun, clandestine relationship.

Currently, I'm in a relationship where intimacy is lacking, and I'm hoping to find someone to fulfill that missing element. I'm interested in someone seeking a similar connection.

Ideally, I'm looking for a genuine partner, a friend with benefits, if you will. I enjoy getting to know people and pushing their limits. If I can leave you breathless and worried about being overheard, then I've done my job well.

I prefer initial contact through Reddit chat to gauge our compatibility, then moving to a platform like Telegram. Engaged conversation is vital; a few lines of communication each day won't work for me.

Regarding kinks, while I'm open to exploring ours in detail, I generally lean towards dominance but not exclusively. Your excitement is a big turn-on for me.

I'm not into extreme BDSM, but naturally, I'm inclined towards actions like spanking and dirty talk.

Intelligence and communication are key qualities I look for in a woman. I hope we can make something that makes us both feel great.

I'm not interested in a one night stand, but rather something ongoing and growing.

If this resonates with you, I'd love to hear from you. :)