For the last number of years I (31M) have had a muse (29F) of sorts. She was a submissive partner of mine who has shared several threesomes and cuck type experiences with me. She’s been there to bounce bdsm ideas off of and also a real good friend. Well distance has taken its toll and we’ve seemed to grow apart a bit but I miss the way that relationship worked.

For reference it was always a friendship and I could go to her for advice on non sexual things as well but the fun we always had was when we would talk dirty. When I would tell her about fetishes I found or when she would tell me about something new she wanted to try. We were very much no subject off limits when it came to our conversations. We could talk CNC and other more extreme fetishes as if it were normal everyday conversation.

Then the sex. It was always amazing. She game the best blowjobs I’ve ever had. When I say she knew how to worship a cock I mean that. We would always film it and watch it back too. She was also a bit of an anal slut. She enjoyed being held down and used for my pleasure. You could say it was freeuse. She many times came over and would fool around with me while my girlfriend was in the room or upstairs sleeping. If I had a partner who wanted a threesome she was always my go to because I knew she would always be down.

I’ve missed these conversations. Recently life has gotten in the way and we don’t talk as much. So, I guess you could say I’m looking for my newest muse. I don’t need daily conversation but I would like someone who is a regular chatter and doesn’t mind the more extreme types of kinks. I want someone who is willing to receive random thoughts as they pop into my head. If they’re somewhat local (I’m in PA) maybe we could even take it further. I’m not too particular on looks. It’s more about their personality and having a kinky friendship.

How have you gone about finding these friends and what has your relationships been like with them?