Hello there!
Recently I've found myself wanting a kinky dynamic again. Really been craving being turned into a slutty little sub for a strict (but playful) dom.
I don't have something extremely defined in my head about what I'm looking for, my emphasis tends to be on building a connection/having good chemistry and the submissive tendencies usually follow. But essentially starting off with a softer dynamic and easing slowly into giving up more control, having rougher play. I absolutely love the idea of having a safe space where I can just let go of control and float in some fun subspace so I'd really like the focus to be on building trust and respect first. Definitely appreciate room for good conversation and building a connection because it absolutely would need to be a safe space for both of us. Good communication absolutely is the hottest thing ever lol.
While I say I'm looking for something softer, I'm also completely drawn to harsher, stricter play - whether that be through rules, daily tasks, maintenance punishments, etc etc. I do like more forceful, almost cnc aspects of play too. As long as there's good chemistry, I'm open to a rougher dynamic. Love the idea of having my dom's kinks "forced" onto me (within reason ofc) and I'd be happy to explore any kinks you'd have in mind, at least once. And I generally love the of being helpless and needy because of my dom. Recently that's definitely where I feel the pull most - conditioned to be a little slut and teased hard for it. I do have a bit of a bratty side, or at least I push back a little but I tend to give in quite quick with some banter/firmness. Also love the thought of frustrating my dom with teasing pictures, esp like when you're at work and can't do anything about it.
Kinks include/curious to try: humiliation/embarrassment, mild petplay, bondage, edging (wouldn't say I'm good at denial though!), gags, mild pain, cnc, funishments, daily tasks, conditioning, building a routine, training, feeling exposed etc
I'm not entirely sure if my limits (or at least, I struggle to articulate it) so I'll be able to tell you based on what you have in mind. I moved to the EU about a year ago so ideally I'd prefer someone in a similar timezone. And for age preference I'd say about 24-early 30s - this is going to be a hard boundary, sorry. Communication via telegram for example would be best.
I have a few toys: a large suction dildo, and a small anal plug, hand cuffs, ankle cuffs, nipple clamps, collar, leash and gag as well. I live alone so that gives me good privacy to be a lil depraved 🙃
Hit me up if this excites you and let's talk! Chats please, I tend to lose messages on the app.
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