Being submissive is part of who you are. It's personal, exciting and brings with it great potential for fulfilment. But to fulfil that potential, you need to find the right person. Someone to submit to that's truly dominant. After all, just like your submissiveness is a part of you, dominance should be a real part of the dominant. Else it's all just an act, and your submissiveness goes much deeper than that.

Rather than claiming I am someone like that, I will start with telling you something about me. That way, you can make up your own mind about me. It's likely that not so far down, your submissive side will awaken the moment you find someone with the potential to submit you. All I ask is that you listen to that side of you.
There’s no way around the fact that I draw attention in most places. I’m tall (even for a Dutch man), dark blond and athletic. I have a demanding job where I’m in control of groups of people. Taking charge has always come naturally to me and people tend to quickly listen and fall in line with what I tell them to. Those that decide to oppose my point of view find a listening ear (as sometimes these people have a point) and if their opposition has no merit a swift conclusion.
When i started out exploring submission dynamics, I quickly learned from people I submitted how few people are dominant by nature and how freeing submission can be once they find that right person. To be clear; as a dominant, I’m strict, which you may find out at your own peril. Obedience should be something you crave and want as your way of life. If you're looking for a dominant that uses and controls you but also cares, someone you can trust yourself to so you can truly surrender, I'm likely a good person to start a chat with.
Now on to you: I’m looking for the right attitude above all else. Submission should be something you think about a lot. Something you find fulfilment in above anything else. You can be bratty or very obedient, I've worked with all types before. Being creative and fun to talk to even outside of this dynamic is of special interest to me. If you’re new to this, I’d be happy to train you. I have done so in the past and think it makes for some of the best subs. I’m open to both online and people close to me. Even if you’re not close, my travels may afford the opportunity to meet in time.
Curious to see if I'm the one you've been looking for? Send me a message and let's find out!