I am looking for a sub interested in a power exchange 24/7 dynamic and relationship. Even though I like for sudle kink dynamic aspects to permeate most aspects of day to day life. It's important we mesh well outside of the kink part as much as the kink part to me as I am seeking a relationship we both enjoy and can flourish in so vanilla me

I am a 31 year old engineer with a good job and enjoy many things cooking, photography, I play guitar, archery, shooting, driving, MTG, DND, video games, cartoons, anime, love going to the Renaissance festival and much much more. I have a cat debating getting a dog again soon my last one died two years back at the age of 10 loved her. I like trying new things seeing new things seeing new things and all that jaz planning to hit up Europe with a buddy seen and a few other smaller trips planned this year.

It would be great if we share a few vanilla hobbies we can nerd out over together. Or be willing to try some of mine I would absolutely be willing to try hobbies of my partner to try to find a few we can share. We don't need to share them all obviously we are our own people.

I am 5' 9" with a beard and hair I grow out at times and cut short others. A bit overweight but working on it haven't gotten the gym since starting this new job but will get back to my 3 days a week. Not a smoker and it is a turn off for me. Casual drinking in social settings.

I am unmarried with no kids open to having 1 or 2 but also content to not have any at this point. I have my own house. I rent a room out to after he moved back from out of state.

Yeah so I am a nerdy, adrenaline junky, who likes to try new things and go new places.

Kink wise I am a Dom who has been into kink for a few years and had a couple of subs. I am very strict but affectionate and enjoy rewarding and punishing my sub. I enjoy using the dynamic to not just have fun but to provide structure and security for my sub such as rules and protocols that benefit her goals and well being (bed times, reading times to finish books she wants to, starting the day off by saying three positive things about herself. stuff like that which is meant for her these are based on things she expresses and is unique to her) is something I enjoy as much as the ones for kinky gratification. I like keeping a board for my sub with good girl points. She can use these for rewards consistent good behavior rewards points infractions lose them on top of standard punishments. I like tracking this and other kinky states on a board in my room for mh sub. Yes, you can decorate it.

Your limits will be respected, after care and check ins are mandatory with me. I want to take care of my sub and I need to know she is okay and happy. I will need a sub agreement and a detailed kink go no go list filled out before getting into things.

Major kinks for me include the following. you don't need to be into all of them and some can be ruled out if need be. But you need to be either into or okay with most of the list for us to work out. 24/7 dynamic orgasm control, power exchange, free use, cock/body worship, rules/protocols/rituals , humiliation, bondage, wax play, body writing,
impact, punishment/reward system, Collar and lead, casual use of bonage gear, CMNF, domestic service.

Hard limits CNC, feces anything illegal

So if you're a nerdy kinky woman (21-35) with no kids. with a fun streak who is looking to give up control in a dynamic you feel both safe, supported, loved and owned in, we might be a good fit and you should reach out! Tell me what your favorite ice cream flavor is so I know you read this post if we messaged before but fell off feel free to message again.