I want to make this about you - your pleasure, satisfaction and ease. There’s a special joy in making someone smile. I’d love to feel proud of how happy I make you. Imagine spending quality time with casual, soothing massages as we talk about our day or sharing new dishes you saw on YT that you’d like me to cook. I could happily listen to you talk all day about the new book you’re reading. It's just how I'm wired, I need to give to feel fulfilled. Including sexually - I hope to get to know every little way your body responds so I can get you off exactly how you like it.

Now, I'm inexperienced, but not new to kink. I co-host a popular munch for kinksters in the city and have been participating in various events in the local kink community for a year. I've taken the time to read and learn about BDSM and myself. I'm a sub-leaning switch, but just looking to be submissive at this point. I've discovered I like the gentler aspects, focused more towards pleasure, sensation and praise, but I'm happy to explore with you. I feel most of kink is the psychological elements anyway. Apart from good service and cuddling, the kink that excites me most is edging - I'd love to experience melting into a squirming mess who can no longer form sentences, haha.

Most of my time is dedicated to building my two communities - the munch and D&D. I help run a popular local D&D community where we organize monthly workshops and help people find games to join. Apart from this, I have typical nerdy interests, but I balance them out with a lot of reading and sports like kayaking and squash. And I love cooking - spicy foods in particular! This winter, I also want to pick up dance classes! Professionally, I'm an AI/robotics engineer, live in Manhattan and can host. Oh, and I'm 5’11, here's what I look like: https://imgur.com/gallery/j8t4KNZ.

Ideally, I’m seeking a female-led relationship with romantic femdom. It means I'd love to be cared for and cherished by you. To be shown gentle and teasing affection. And in turn I’m proactive, anticipate your needs and turn my attention to easing your life and the things that bring you joy. In a good balance, I stay my own man with time towards my interests but will find my happiness in yours and dedicate myself to you. I like to think of it as a Princess/knight dynamic. I appreciate women who can be direct and ask for what they want, like to read and find nerdy interests endearing 😉.

If this sounds appealing to you, drop me a chat request and let's meet for a coffee this cuffing season!