2024 is the year I want to embrace my kinky side. I've been saying the same thing since 2020, but then 2020 happened. Maybe this time?

So, hello there! I'm Val and I'm looking for a friend, a confidant, and, hopefully, a Dom(me).

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About me: I'm a small town dweller, introvert and homebody, a sensitive soul with a mischievous streak. Prone to daydreaming and pride myself on having a pretty wild imagination. I live alone with my elderly cat and play D&D 1-3 times per week. Very big on fantasy in general. I also enjoy drawing, strolls through the woods and feeding the local crow population. I've been told I have a very "dark fairytale" vibe to me, and that's exactly what I'm trying to embody.

In terms of appearance, I'm 5'5", 120 lbs and have fluffy auburn hair. I'm happy to exchange photos later. A heads-up, I’m a trans guy, pre-everything and not too concerned with passing these days, but my identity isn't up for debate.

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Kink-wise, I guess what I'm looking for is best described as an owner/pet type of dynamic. I want to feel cherished and protected, but also be put in my place when I act out. The thought of being owned, particularly by someone who can be both caring and strict/slightly mean, makes my heart sing. I can be a tiny bit bratty and enjoy some playful banter, but ultimately I want to be sweet and obedient :)

Aside from that, I'd prefer to have a more in-depth discussion about our kinks in private.

Non-negotiable limits: anything illegal (duh), ageplay, misgendering, permanent damage, toilet play or anything unsanitary.

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Who I'm looking for: In addition to being compatible when it comes to the kinky stuff, I'm looking for someone kind and compassionate, mature when needed but not afraid to be a little silly either. You're preferably at least somewhat talkative, as one-sided conversations are difficult, but if you're more shy that's fine too!

Other than that, I hope to find someone who is...

• 23 , located in Europe or a compatible timezone.
• Open to somewhat regular voice/video chats and, potentially, meeting up in the future.
• A fellow artist, roleplayer, fantasy enthusiast or nature lover. I’d love to bond over more than just kink.
• Seeking something more long-term and willing to take things slow.

I’m generally most attracted to women (cis or trans), but I’m very much bi/pan so anybody is welcome to reach out :)

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I’m holding out hope that, through a stroke of fate, the right person will find this. The chances might be low, but a boy can dream :’)

If anything here resonated with you, I’d be delighted to receive your message! If not, then good luck on your search regardless. Thank you very much for reading, hope to hear from you soon!

Val