I'm looking for someone that wants the stability and firm guiding hand of a experienced Dominant and wants fulfillment in a dynamic. Someone who wants to be held softly but also manhandled for fun. Eager to please someone they have bonded with and values communication of all kinds.

Vanilla me: In my spare time I also do some photography, lots of weightlifting, and make things (both kinky and not). Been doing a lot of acrobatics recently too so huge plus if you'd like to join me as my flyer. Big film buff, especially horror and bad ones. Engineer by trade, but will likely own a business one day. I'm good to exchange pics, audio, and do voice calls, and the like.

Kinky me: Control is my biggest kink and latex is definitely my weakness. I'm also into bondage (bonus points if you want to try hojojutsu), CNC, TPE, many forced things, impact, dollification, pet play, and probably a few more I'm forgetting atm. The greatest joy I have is improving a partner's life through kink, and the training, guidance, or accountability that comes with that. I'd enjoy a submissive who wants me to care for them and guide them through life. I enjoy making decisions for my partners, so the more you put yourself in my hands, the better. I'm not big on disrespect, so brats are welcome but don't be surprised about the consequences of your actions. Of course, dolls, pets, princesses, subs, and slaves are all welcome too. I do not engage in much little play personally. Obviously this is all something that is built towards, I'd expect to take things over time, and establish a dynamic that gets deeper and more intense as we progress.

I'm not looking for a kink dispenser, and I don't want to be one either, but you should know a good portion of my life revolves around kink and I want someone that truly wants that lifestyle too. I have vanilla interests but kink is a huge part of my life. I don't want to be with someone that's just looking for bedroom kink every now and then. Ideal for me is a dynamic throughout the week, kinky events on the weekends, and kinky vacations throughout the year. I am willing to relocate a partner as well as visit someone far away. I'm not some jackass who just wants to tell a chick to suck his dick, this is my life and I'm extremely devoted to this lifestyle.

This is just a bit about me so let me know what questions you may have and more about you. Again, I want someone genuine so please don't play games. Tell me exactly how fast you are comfortable with moving. Total TPE is very normal to me, so I need you to tell me what speed you are comfortable with.