I’m sort of bored but been a mentor IRL to others for years in the lifestyle. I won’t go into too many details about my history and who I am. I do have a beautiful and wonderful submissive in my care who I adore because she is motivated to learn. She has suggested and allowed me to teach and educate others in the lifestyle. I’m located in NE Oklahoma but have experience in D/s, M/s and DD/lg. I’m new to online but I’m good at it or been told that by a few subs who I mentor only… IRL I was raised in the lifestyle in a 1950 household where my father was strict with my submissive mother and us 5 siblings. So I’ve seen huge changes in the BDSM lifestyle in relationships and now Dynamics.

First of all I get it, I’m not for everyone nor do I claim to be. One important thing is I don’t wear my Dominance on my sleeve nor do I force anything upon anyone, but I can be strict and I am Dominant in all areas of my life. Second I’m old school and like I said grew up around other submissive women and Dominants but I believe you earn submission through connection with a submissive. I use RACK as a reference for play. I personally think that RACK is a lot more honest and a lot less ambiguous than SSC for the purpose in educating the people who actually engage in BDSM play activities. I think that RACK makes you much more aware of what needs to be covered before engaging in ANY activity with anyone. I know that many will disagree but I’m not here to debate the issue just what I practice. I’m Sapiosexual in nature and love intelligent conversations and gravitate to those who are either in school or have degrees but I’m open to helping any novice submissive in learning what’s appropriate and what’s not in BDSM dynamics.

If you’re a serious female submissive and interested let’s talk. Like I afore mentioned I’m not for everyone but I’ve taught many different individuals in the lifestyle and just moved to Oklahoma where it’s strict and conservative from Portland and Seattle where is very liberal and open with multitudes of opportunities to learn…. Want to know more ask as I’ve helped young couples to learn D/s and submissives to men how to be Domme to other women and trans.

Enjoy your day ….