I'm a musician and digital artist with a more mainstream job as well. Currently own and operate a small record label and have around two dozen musical projects of my own plus around 100 bands who I've worked with. I generally make album artwork but this can also be branched out to horror.
My Dom style is Primal with many shades of Degrader and Sadist dom. saying that, I can also be gentle outside of a scene at times, alongside being philosophical and some fun banter. I do provide and understand the importance of aftercare.
Preferably looking for UK based but happy to consider Europe for the right person. Not looking for any dynamic to be 100% online based.
Preferences: above all, a similar level of morality and outlook if we're going long term. A gradually intuitive understanding. Saying that:
Hard kinks: Breath play (tailored to taste), degradation, a2m, rope, outdoors, whips, knives, written scenarios acted out in real life to my specifications, imagination, clamps, fishnets, secrets (ie remote control vibrators, butt plugs in public etc) temperature play, killer/victim role play, spit.
Soft limits: Pet play. Having you with a collar on and chain in my hand is one thing im ok with, but sell pet play to me if it's a hard kink of yours. 24/7 before we're already very established
Hard limits: scat, age play, feet, breeding, poly, and the easily offended. I wouldn't consider real life rape play unless we'd been going quite some time.
Connection trumps all if you want more than a fling
Communication skills are everyone's responsibility.
A sense of humour, some intelligence and a creative streak is quite appealing.
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