To make a long story short, I have struggled a lot with the LA dating scene. There are options, but I have a long checklist of items that have been tough to meet with just relying on guys I meet by chance:

• Not looking for a relationship, but we still get along as people in general (hopefully that's not too surprising, I at least want to be able to think of you as a friend). I'm easy to get along with and have a great sense of humor and am generally a very positive person.

• Dabbles in kink but not too heavily (everyone should do what they like, this is just personal preference. As an example for me, handcuffs-yes, anal hooks-no; slapping-yes, punching-no; dirty names-yes, threats to ruin my life-no)

• Is a top

• Is enthusiastic about being with someone who is FTM, has not had bottom surgery and is not planning on getting it, without it becoming too much of a fetishization thing (I want a guy to be attracted to me, but not just because I'm FTM)

• Is okay dominating someone who is extremely masculine--I have some pics below. I go to the gym a LOT. I am not a twink, I promise you. Even though I don't do face pics online, I've got a caveman brow and a full face of stubble that turns into a lumberjack beard if I don't stay on top of it. I'm 210 pounds at 5'10". This is just the reality and unfortunately I probably would've been better suited to be a top, but here we are.

• Is also in good shape, and generally bigger/stronger than I am so that I don't feel like a giant

• Has a high sex drive, because I do. Obviously this is very flexible because we both have lives, but my baseline is probably a few times a week (my actual preference is probably 1x-2x a day, but with logistics taken into consideration, a few times a week seems more reasonable)

• Is extremely discreet (as I am)

Some pics here--note that I do not send face pics online under any circumstances, nor do I expect them. It's a dangerous exercise and I encourage everyone to be careful about this.

https://imgur.com/1A6H7dq

https://imgur.com/we7Gb4D

So if this sounds up your alley, shoot me a message or a chat and we can discuss further. Thanks.