Hello,

I'm a 53 yo male BDSM switch (not bisexual) and I'm looking for a Domme to help me with a personal sounding project that I want to start after the New Year, so I wanted to post early to try to find someone and get to know them a bit first....

I don't want to go through a lot of details here as I prefer to use that as discussion to get to know each other. 🙂 So, if you're not familiar with sounding, you can either look it up or ask me.

You can probably gather a decent bit of info from me from my reddit profile. For the info you can't find there, I'm 5'11", dad bod that I'm trying (new start next year) to reduce, I've had more experience as a Dom than a sub, but this is definitely about me being submissive at least to an extent... I live alone although sometimes my son is here if he's on break from college.

What I'd like from you is to be at least age 21, mostly hwp (I don't feel I can expect you to be in 'model shape ', if I'm not lol) as I do want us both to find each other physically attractive - I feel that helps with the desire and connection.... You don't have to have much experience as a Domme, but at least understand the role and that it's not just about you controlling me, demeaning me, etc. As mentioned above, if you don't know much or anything about sounding, that's ok - we can talk about it...

While I intend this to be a casual commitment, it can be a 'long' one (definitely will be a few months if successful). That being said, we can discuss and carry out other fun things if we decide to do so.

My known limits are: blood, needles, scat, demeaning/demoralizing, blatant public nudity, any pics/videos that show my face as a sexual act is being performed, anything that is illegal and/or that will cause trouble at work/socially.

I look forward to chatting - we can do so here via chat or msgs or telegram (id in profile).

Again, I've left things a little vague to try to help weed out scammers and such, so I doubt I'll respond if I just get something like "I'm in - let's do this!" Lol But to add to that, in your first message, please tell me your favorite color and style of lingerie....

Thanks for reading!

Tim