Right, so to get this out of the way as some things seem to be a common theme: I'm not going to be your daddy, I don't plan on making you a slave or a pet, I don't desire TPE, and I'm not sadistic. At this point you might be thinking: "This guy's the worst, he doesn't even plan to put me in cage. Who does he think he is? Doesn't he know you need at least 5 different whip and chain sets before you post here?" And you'd be right. That isn't the kind of dynamic I'm after. You remain, as you are, independent, smart and autonomous over your own decisions. I don't want to communicate with someone who just wants to follow orders because I gave them, or someone who can't hold a conversation beyond answering questions and waiting to be told what to do.

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The dynamic I'm after is one where you're allowed to be vulnerable by ways of sharing. Sharing your thoughts, goals, and body. That's where the 'voyeur' part of the title comes in, and you would need some to desire to be vulnerable in these ways.

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Since mentioning 'body' is the obvious outlier here in terms of being physical, let me address how physical intimacy, nudity, and sex stands in this relationship should we pursue it. First, it's online for a reason. I feel strongly about my personal space, independence, and I don't particularly like physical touch. Physical intimacy is therefore not in-person physical, but online in terms of sharing a body. Second, I love watching (voyeur). I love receiving intimate photos and video. This is a thing that will become a daily expectation in time, and if you can't see yourself ever meeting that expectation, then this won't work out. I want to see and enjoy your body. Third, sex will be in the form of masturbation. I don't expect you to find partners and there's no expectation for us to meet at some point. As I mentioned, you will remain autonomous and independent, so if you happen to have sex with someone, that is your decision. Fourth, hypocritically, I don't particularly like sharing my own body, but it's not entirely off the table depending on you. Finally, and this important, it's not like I expect you to strip down from the first reply... that only comes with your second reply. Being vulnerable in terms of nudity takes time and that time is different for each person. Some will be happy to do so within an hour, and others will want weeks. That is okay. Just know that you should be willing to do so eventually, and I'll help you along the way.

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For being vulnerable in other ways: I genuinely hope we can have ongoign conversations and come to like each other. I'd love to have someone who can share their thoughts and goals, who can allow themselves to be honest. As vulnerable as your are with your body, so do I want to be with your thoughts. I don't want you to filter things out. Tell me how you really feel about some subject. Tell me your real dreams. Tell me what you really want. Be open. If you just saw a silly commercial and want to tell someone, send me a message. If you suddenly have the desire to become heiress of the local pizza joint, tell me that as well.

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Lastly, what do I mean by structuring? What the hell is a 'structuring voyeur'? Beyond the voyeur bit which I pointed out above, I do love the idea of making decisions for you as well. Allow me to help you with certain goals, or just let you be free of some decision making. Often a desire is to receive tasks or structure, and I'm happy to provide that as long as you know it'll be in a perverted way most likely. Have it become part of your daily structure. An obvious example is weight loss. Let me know what you eat and what exercises you do and I'll alter it a bit as I see fit. Maybe introduce a new exercise, change your diet habits, or have you focus more on your ass for my viewing pleasure. Why did you wear that gym outfit? Some random dude online told you to. I dunno. Many aspects of control through structure is possible.

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A lot was said here. By now you should have a good idea if this is something you'd be interested or not. I don't expect anyone's interests to align perfectly with what I can offer. Instead, I propose you ask what you desire out of a power dynamic relationship and if that can fit with what I desire out of a relationship. We can then chat and see if a relationship is viable. Perhaps you want me to take more control that I insinuate here, or perhaps all of this is perfect but you really do want that cage though. Who knows.