I recognize this ad is long, but I rather give sufficient information than nothing at all!

I'm at that point where I really would like to find a Mommy/Daddy Dom to have a long-term dynamic with, which means I want to get along and hang out with not just in the bedroom but out of it. So please be able to hold a conversation and have time to do non-kink activities together. I'm looking for people in the 30-40 age range.

My main absolute is that you are leftist. I will NOT submit to nor share my body with anyone who doesn’t have the same values as me. The second must have is that you must be ethically non-monogamous. It doesn’t matter to me if you are partnered but I don’t want to help anyone cheat on their partner. 

The above are my necessaries, but I also have preferences that will make me a lot more likely to consider you if you meet the following: If you are childfree like me, that’s great because I think  that would make the scheduling a lot easier. I would like it if you fell under the queer umbrella of sexuality. I really enjoy group play, and group play is better when it’s inclusive! As a note, I don’t do group play with straight men. 

If you’re a man, I don’t like that toxic masculinity or machisimo bullshit. If you push the gender binary, that’s awesome. I enjoy that! I like someone who is secure in their sexuality and gender, and isn’t threatened by pushing that line. Also, don’t come into my chats or messages by calling me by pet names already. I don’t like that shit until there’s been a dynamic established. 

Now that all that has been discussed, onto the fun stuff! I’m just going to list my kinks below to make it easier for reading:

• Spanking
• Edging/denial
• Bondage/restraint
• Sensory deprivation
• Degradation
• Praise
• Group play
• Wax play
• Electrical play
• Exhibitionism and voyeurism
• Toys like collars and leashes, spreader bars, floggers, blindfolds, vibrators
• I’m also a huge brat when I’m a sub, so any dom is going to have to accept that and like it. Otherwise I don't see it lasting long and that's no fun.
• I also would love a Stag/vixen dynamic, regardless of the gender of my dom. I think there's some enticing aspect to having them pick out some people to fuck me and watch me. It appeals to my exhibitionist side and me just wanting to make them proud.

And then for vanilla interests, because being able to have conversations is important to me and I want to have at least some interests in common:

• Dungeons & Dragons 5e and Pathfinder 2e
• (Co-op) Video games
• Hiking (anything nature based really)
• Marvel and Star Wars movies
• PERCY JACKSON
• Tattoos
• Learning new skills - if you can teach me something, I'd love that!

I'm not looking for a type in particular, at least I don't have one with women. With men, I seem to gravitate towards lean (well leaner than me) and white, since I like that stark contrast. I myself am 5'3 and I'd say curvy? I'm happy to share photos of what I look like in chat since I recognize that physical attraction is also important.