Cliff Notes

Looking for: Serious Connection, but open to casual for the right person. Prefer to take time and know someone before I do any play. Appearances are not as much of a concern for me. 20-30 age range preferred, but can be flexible for the right person. Australia-based preferred, to allow for face to face meeting.

Personal Info: 23 y.o., lives on the NSW Southern Highlands. I am happy to provide SFW photos after a period of talking and getting to know each other. I am blunt, but loyal and friendly when I get to know someone. I can be a little slow to trust sometimes, so patience and understanding are key.

Hobbies: Gaming, Anime Manga, Travelling and Sport.

Kink: Soft Switch, but still exploring my interests. Gentle Hedonist Daddy(Pleasure Dom and Caregiver); and Gentle Service Bunny (Service Sub and Rope/Bondage Bunny) would be the generalisations of my main likes, but I have more. Please read below for more likes and Hard and Soft Limits.

If you are interested, please send me a chat message with some details about you and something that stood out in my personal. I am happy to talk on other platforms, such as Discord, but would prefer to set up an initial conversation here first.

Looking forward to talking with people and seeing where things go!

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What I’m looking for

I’d prefer something meaningful, but I’m also open to casual play. I like to start slow, building on common interests and attraction rather than rushing into to a dynamic. I’d also like to get to know you first as a person before delving into anything serious, play or anything more, as I am demisexual and require that connection. I can still play, but the sexual aspect will take time.

Appearances don’t matter as much to me as you having a fulfilling life outside of kink including hobbies, friends, and your own ambitions - Please just show that you have a life outside kink. I’m more comfortable with someone in the 20-30 age range, but this isn’t as much of a focus for the right personality. I also prefer to play with women and femme-leaning individuals, as a personal preference.

I’d prefer if we are both in Australia, in particular within the Greater Sydney area, as that allows for ease of communication and possibility of meeting face to face. Please no one from Europe and America, as the timezones would be too complex and short to work with long term.

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About me (Vanilla)

I’m a 24 (nearly 25) year old male living in the Southern Highlands of NSW, Australia, about 1.5 hours away from Sydney.

Appearance-wise, I am a Caucasian male (6'2"-ish, 115kg chubby body type) with dark hair. I'm looking to lose weight for my own sanity and to get more fit for sport, but struggle to find time to focus on it. I’m happy to provide SFW photos once we have had time to speak and get to know each other after a decent period of time. I do not expect those who reply to send one of themselves straight away either.

Personality-wise, I tend to be seen as blunt but honest in how I convey my opinions and concerns. Once I’m more comfortable, I am friendly, loyal, kind, and funny. However, due to being slow in trusting people and not having any substantial relationship experience, I will need someone patient and understanding.

Hobbies

• Gaming (Happy to talk and play with you if you are into it as well)
• Sci-Fi and Fantasy (love Doctor Who and Star Trek!)
• Anime/Manga
• Travelling (which I try to do a lot around Australia and hoping to do some overseas, when finances are more stable)
• Sport (I play and watch Cricket and AFL) \

Happy to discuss these with people in greater detail.

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Kink Background

I am still learning what I am interested in and seeing where my exact limits are. I do classify as a Switch, but I do have more submissive experiences than dominant, due to the opportunities that have come up for me. Still exploring where I do fit fully on the spectrum of fun. Also hoping to learn and get more Topping/Dominant Experience in as well, as I have minimal experience with in-person scenes. If I had to pick a selection for what I would identify as; In Dom mode, I would be a Gentle Hedonist Daddy (Pleasure Dom and Caregiver), with a sadistic streak; and for my Sub side, it would be a Gentle Service Bunny (Service Sub and Rope/Bondage Bunny). Happy to test and experiment with how far I would go with some forms of play, though, as these are the biggest generalisations I can think of, as my tastes do move from one to another over time.

Interests (♡ = Main Likes)

Dominant

• Bondage ♡
• Impact ♡
• Anal Play ♡
• Nurturing and Pampering ♡
• Copious Amounts of Aftercare (Cuddling and soothing, plus looking after their needs) ♡
• Body Worship (As a worshiper of the sub, instead of the sub worshipping me) ♡
• Brat Tamer
• Sensory Play (To compliment other forms of play, like Bondage and Impact) ♡
• Orgasm Control, Edging, Denial and Forced Orgasms ♡
• Marking (Lipstick, Body Writing, Bites) ♡
• Voyeurism and Selective Exhibitionism

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Submissive

• Bondage ♡
• Body Worship ♡
• Light Impact
• Anal Play ♡
• Sensory Play ♡
• Wax
• Orgasm Control, Edging and Denial (Denial for shorter periods of time) ♡
• Marking (Lipstick, Body Writing, Bites) ♡
• Selective Exhibitionism (Not good around anyone, but more open with known and trusted people to show off)

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Limits

Soft Limits

• Medium to Heavy Impact (Sub Half) (Discuss levels and pain tolerances before doing any).
• Some forms of Pet Play (Happy to try out some and see what it is like, but not a big interest of mine)
• Chastity Play (Sub Half) (Happy to do it for short periods of time, but with discussion and nothing long term: >1 Month)
• DD/lg MD/lb Play (I am fine with being a nurturing figure, or someone being nurtured, but I am not into the age regression aspect of this style of play)
• Edge Play, such as Knife Play and Breath Play (Only after significant time and experience with each other and when both parties are comfortable doing so. Before that, this is a Hard Limit)
• Consensual Non-Consent (This is much more on the border between soft and hard limits, but this would only be with trusted people and after a period of time with play, similar to Edge Play)
• Forced Bi (Similar to Edge Play and CNC, where this is very much depending on the time, thought processes and people doing it with)

Hard Limits

• Feminisation (As Sub)
• Scat
• Golden Showers
• Blood Play
• Heavy Public Humiliation (Happy to discuss where the lines are) (As a Sub)
• Cuckolding
• Needle Play

I am happy to discuss these with people, to go into further detail. These may also develop as I become more experienced with kink, so the list below may not end up being complete.