Hi all, 23-year-old Dom from Germany here. I am currently looking for a D/s relationship, open for both long- and short-term.

about me :

general:

As I said I am currently living in Germany and working as a computer engineer for almost 4 years now. Since this is also my passion I really enjoy my job. In my free time, I like to code some stuff for myself, repair computers, watch YouTube videos, and educate myself. So as you might have noticed, I am nerdy haha. Other than that, I also enjoy riding my bicycle, hanging out with friends, listening to music and podcasts, and playing computer games. My second big passion is photography, I love to go out into the woods and take pictures of the wildlife and epic landscapes.

appearance:

I am 176cm tall, a bit on the thicker side, I am wearing glasses, and brown hair and eyes. I dress pretty average, most of the time jeans and unicolor shirts.

character:

I would say, I am a person, who always knows what they want, and I am a bit of an overthinker. But also I would describe myself as strict, honest, reliable, and loyal. If I have a goal, I will get there no matter what effort it takes. Also, I enjoy leading others, taking control, and giving them advice. It is a great feeling to know that I can help somebody. But I can be a very calm and sociable person, and I really like to laugh.

kinky-side:

I got into BDSM about 7 years ago, as I discovered my enjoyment in controlling other lives and becoming their leader. My favorite Kinks include Orgasm denial, Clothing/Bladder control, TPE, bondage, degradation, body writing, public, anal play, breast play, nipple/clit torture, and many more. These are just my favorites.

I also love to give tasks and punishments to my sub, with a strict ruleset.

limits:

soft limits: watersports

hard limits: anything illegal, underaged, animals, poop, blood

about you:

What am I expecting from you?

When it comes to experience, IMO it completely doesn't matter, if you are well experienced or a beginner, as well as looks, I don't have any preferences about looks. You should be open-minded and ready to experience new things, of course, everything within the limits. But sometimes I am willing to push you to the edge of your limits. Also, it would be preferred if you are in my timezone or close to it since the time shift makes it hard, but with enough effort from both sides, a bigger time gap shouldn't be a problem too. You should be willing to trust me after a long get-to-know phase.

Also, always nice to know, what you expect out of a D/s relationship, what are your goals?

Since there are many fake profiles on Reddit or the internet you should be ready to make a fake check, of course, I would do it too. Also if you are okay with sending pictures and/or videos it's a big plus.

Some of the things above are must-haves, but some others are just guidelines. A good relationship only works if we vibe together, trust ourselves, and have a good connection. I always like to get to know each other, with some "chat games", deep talks, a lot of communication and just asking each other out.

Overall, if you think we could vibe and I picked your interest, don't be shy and hit me up. I am looking forward to find my new sub.