I just want to find my forever person. I want a monogamous relationship. I donāt want a long distance relationship so I know posting on Reddit is a long shot.
Iām funny/goofy with a quick wit. Iām currently training to be a medical technologist at a hospital, and I love cellular biology. How I spend my time after work depends on my current hyperfixation, so right now I just play a lot of Vault Hunters (modded minecraft) when I get home. I also have the cutest black cat so Iāll snuggle her after work, too. I want to learn Spanish and maybe a programming language too, so as soon as my hyperfixation with Vault Hunters fades, hopefully Iāll get back into those, too. Oh, I was also painting with watercolors for a bit and I would like to get back into that. I like traveling and going to concerts, musicals, and ballets. Last concert I went to was Paramore. Next musical Iām going to is Mamma Mia. And Iām going to see the Nutcracker this weekend!
I would say Iām a submissive pillow princess (Iāve given before and Iām open to trying that again, but yeah I would say Iām 80-90% pillow princess). Iām looking for a partner that will be goofy with me even during sex. If we arenāt laughing together, I donāt want it. I always identified as a good girl, but recently realized I might be a brat? Maybe just sometimes? I donāt know Iām not really comfortable with saying that but I guess thatās how my quick wit/smart remarks come off :( One time I was pouting because my now-ex didnāt have time to give me a spanking, but I was just feeling my feelings, I wasnāt trying to get the spanking. So when she ended up bending me over the bed and spanking me, I safe-worded. I know bratting is something to be discussed so maybe that was why I safe-worded? But my point is, Iām really not sure if Iām a brat or not. I hope to find someone willing to figure that out with me. Also, I feel ālittleā sometimes but I donāt age regress if that makes sense.
I want someone to take care of me, and Iāll take care of them. There is so much love in my heart and I need someone to give it to. Iām also hoping to find a partner who loves learning as much as I do. I would love to have someone to share new knowledge with and receive new knowledge in return on a daily or maybe weekly basis. Ideal partner is 5-10 years older than me, intelligent, single, chubby š„°, and goofy/nerdy. Looking for more of a Daddy/Mommy Domme type, not āMistressā vibes.
I would say communication is one of the most important things for creating and maintaining a healthy relationship. Please do not expect me to know that youāre upset if you just change your tone a little bit rather than tell me explicitly. That being said, sometimes if Iām overwhelmed or sad, Iāll be nonverbal. Usually yes or no questions are the way to figure out whatās bothering me, or texting. In general though, Iām a good communicator when Iām in the right mindset.
This is way longer than I realized, but hopefully the right person sees this and messages me with a short introduction about themselves. ā¤ļø
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