Hello, I’m looking for a monogamous LTR with someone who is my equal in every day life (we would be a power couple!) that shares similar life goals and values, but a dom and disciplinarian behind closed doors.

About me

I’m highly accomplished and career driven (engineering / tech), and also caring, communicative, kind and devoted. I have hopes and dreams of taking on the world while building a life with someone and raising a family. I’m also petite, athletic, into sports and anything outdoors (hiking, camping etc). ISTJ. Location wise, I’m based in the bay area, but have a bit of flexibility to travel.

What I’m looking for

• responsible, kind, hardworking and intellectually stimulating (I get along best with STEM folks)
• in shape / athletic / outdoorsy
• understands how to be in a healthy relationship and is ready to start a family
• 34 - 42
• East Asian or Caucasian
  
• enjoys (or doesn’t mind) putting bratty subs in their place through discipline and spanking

Kink

I’d much prefer to prioritize getting to know someone on a vanilla level first to see if we click there and build a strong foundation, before diving into kink land. The things you should know about me kink wise for compatibility: I’m 80% a bratty sub (I am not a true submissive — most of the times willingly submitting isn’t in my nature, what I primarily gain from the dynamic is the power struggle and my doms strong and steady resolve to discipline and punish me until I eventually do submit). I’m not into degradation (but slight humiliation is ok), nothing extreme (scat, blood, needles), nor breath play.

Basically, I’m a true die-hard spanko and have had many awesome play partners over the years to know what I want / don’t want out of the dynamic. If you’re looking to mold someone into your perfect submissive or want to dom to control all of aspects of someone’s life, it ain’t me. As long as your needs and desires include discipline and spanking and your needs also don’t veer too far out of this space, we would be okay.

Feel free to message me with a little bit about yourself.