I love the sensations our bodies are capable of experiencing. I love the pleasures and the pains, and how the two blend. I love the anticipations and delights our minds create for us. I love the intimacy of kinky play, where the tenderness (or loving roughness) of a hand on a throat (or my balls) runs headlong into primal responses. We feel the fight or flight but give in and submit, trusting. I love the eroticism and the aesthetic of ropes, and cuffs, and lingerie. I love the feeling of surrender.

I'm also a normal person, with a normal life, who must live in this normal world, with its ups and downs and responsibilities. I want to share the experience of being me with you, and share the experience of being you with you as well. And I want to share my bed with someone who is turned on by the things that turn me on. What are those, concretely? Here's a kinklist if you like to peruse those sorts of things — it's from a few years back, so I reserve the right to amend it!

I'm introverted, rational, irrational, scientific, liberal, spiritual, philosophipcal, compassionate, kind, and generous. I read fantasy and science fiction, as well as nonfiction books on religion and magick. I'm divorced and have school aged children. I exercise and eat well (and sometimes do therapy) in order to manage some depressive tendencies, but they've been at bay for quite a while now. I work in software, which means I stare at a screen entirely too much.

Physically I'm 5'10", 165 lbs /- depending, white, 6.5" cut cock, with natural pubic hair. I'm happy to share photos once we chat a little bit.

I'd like to meet someone from Charlottesville, Richmond, Harrisonburg, Staunton, or surrounding areas: someone in driving distance from me. I'm looking for real life connection, leading to a real relationship. If you're not local but want to chat because something struck your fancy, I won't say no to some friendly conversation.