I'm bi-sexual but don't like to share :-((((

About me :-):

I work in data analytics, am a high-earner. I'm introverted, independent, and imaginative and like reading (my favorite authors are Ottessa Moshfegh, David Foster Wallace, Shirley Jackson), writing transgressive fiction, watching movies (I'm a bit of a cinephile---my favorite directors are Catherine Breillat, Micheal Haneke, Noah Baumbach, and Whit Stillman (I also love new extremity and horror movies)), cooking, and exercising.I also can be overly analytical and have OCD.

I'm blonde, fit, and very reserved, yet a direct communicator. People tell me I have dark, morbid, dry humor. Those who understand it think I'm hilarious; others find it creepy. It takes me awhile to warm up to people and I prefer slow-burn relationships to fast-paced. I don't smile in photos, so you'd ideally not be perturbed by my cold, lifeless selfies.

I'm pretty busy with working full-time, writing/reading on my free time, and exercising while watching movies a lot, so I like girls who are equally as busy and won't distract me from my hobbies, but will still prioritize me like the catch that I am 0:-) I only dated girls in high school before I was groomed by a guy that was 20 years older than me... the girls all broke my heart.

Looking for:

~ Something fun, no pressure, not to rush into anything <3

~ In-person (no online or text-only relationships, no nudes, no cybering)

~ Ages 26 - late-forties

~ Someone located near upstate NY, or would be willing to travel to where I am once a month or so

~ College-educated

I'm just getting out of an 11-year vanilla marriage (no kids) and had one boyfriend during college (from freshman to senior year) that was D/S, where we did a lot of my kinks below.

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My kinks (receiving):

~ Lingerie, Uniform/costume, stockings (self); I've got a huge wardrobe of things I've never worn haha

~ Butt play

~ Bondage

~ D/S

~ Discipline

~ Orgasm control, edging

~ Power exchange

~ CNC

~ Kidnapping

~ Sleep play

~ Drugs / alcohol

~ Tentacles

~ Breath play

~ Spanking

~ Biting

~ Scratching

~ Face slapping

~ Hair pulling

~ Being told I'm a good girl

Open to/never tried:

~ Toys

~ Watersports

~ Fisting

~ Cutting

My limits:

~ Groupings more than me and 1 girl

~ Cunnilingus (giving), face-sitting

~ Domestic servitude

~ Slavery

~ Begging

~ Blackmail

~ Cheating

~ Incest

~ Bestiality

~ Fluids

~ Degradation

~ Any sensation (e.g., tickling, etc.)

~ Gangbang

~ Pregnancy

~ Cuckhold

~ Anything that would make me look ugly

Chat me with your photo and an introduction (location, what you do, hobbies, et cetera) if it seems like we'd make a good dynamic. I won't accept blank chat requests. Please make it clear you've read this entire post haha.

I don't use Snap Chat, won't send verification photos, and don't like to play games!

Happy to switch for the right girl :-)