I was encouraged to write this by a good friend of mine and I agree, it’s not a bad idea. The truth is, I can be a pretty wildly kinky guy (see below for more on that) and I want someone who’s also kinky… but thats not my whole personality:

I’m also an actor. I’m decently successful in my field and have my own apartment downtown Toronto with a cool Murphy bed and a tv on wheels. I spend a lot of time here lol. My apartment rocks.

I’m pretty funny and charming. I don’t seek to be the centre of attention but I don’t shy away from it. I tend to get along with everyone. In general I find people deeply fascinating and largely worthy of empathy.

I’ve learned a lot about myself and grown a lot over the years. Growth and self-development is a big part of me — though not in a judgey prescriptive way, more in like an acceptance of self way. The world is hard enough! I want to help. Actually, It’s something I’m very seriously considering going to school for in the near future… potentially getting into counselling or social work.

On the introvert/extrovert scale I’d say I’m right in the middle.

I’m also a pretty creative guy: whether that be writing stories for film, designing worlds for games, or carving little stone sculptures.

If it wasn’t clear already… I’m kind of a nerd. Both in the way that I’m kind of a font of useless trivial knowledge, but also I’m a fan of comic books, Star Wars, d&d, and other cool nerd shit (though I tend to not be overly fond of camp). I don’t think I really present as nerdy though.

My looks: good looking, 5’10, classically handsome, lightly bearded man (while still looking like a normal person). Dark curly hair, lightly bearded, decent jawline. Broad shoulders and in decent shape even though I don’t really work out, just got them good genes! Not sure what I’d call my fashion… Average man. lol. Think khakis and plaid and t shirts. I’ve got a real cool jacket though that makes me feel like a modern cowboy.

Ultimately, I’m looking for a life partner but am happy to explore anything and everything in between in the meantime. These kinds of connections take time and you never know where you might find them. Also nothing needs that kind of pressure! Let’s just have fun.

Which brings us here! Sex!

My sexuality has changed and grown a lot over the years but one thing has remained consistent: I like some kinky shit.

When I was first exploring years ago, that meant me being dominant: ropes, degradation, facefucking, you know… good fun bdsm classics.

Eventually I started to embrace my submissive side and helllll yeah. Humiliation, degradation, slaveplay, chastity, cuckolding, you name it. My most recent ex and I actually made a bit of content you can see on my profile if you’re so inclined. (We’re still on good terms btw)

I’ve done a lot of stuff in the privacy of my own home as a couple of consenting adults exploring… but I’ve never done any play in a more official or professional way, if that makes sense. Not much of an exhibitionist really. If you are, that’s not a problem! Just know, that might freak me out lol. But yeah, I may not know official terminology or shibari whatevers. Always open to learning though.

What I’m looking for:

A cute, smart, girl/lady/woman. A good person on the inside and also a good looking person on the outside, in decent shape. I’m a sucker for pretty eyes and slight features.

Re sex: you could be someone with not a lot of kinky experience but an interest in exploring, or you could be a full blown professional. As long as you’re cool and fun to spend time with, you’re gold.

Ideally I’d like someone with an interest in being dominant, because I do think being a sub is my favourite. But lately I’ve been feeling like I could get back into dommy stuff here and there, so hey, if you wanna fucks around with that, that’s great too.

Also just like normal sex. Not everything needs to have gags and buttplugs. Sometimes you just want a good fuck with a finger up your butt lol. I kid. But really, again, kinkiness is a big part of me, but it’s not the whole package.

Anyway, again feel free to check out my profile for a fraction of the sexy stuff that my ex and I did. Though I should warn you: there be caged dick ahead.

Ummm yeah! This will be an interesting experiment to see who, if anyone, will reply. I’m both terrified and excited.