TLDR: Asian (30M) Sadistic Top from New Jersey seeking Submissive woman as a Play Partner for consistent play sessions. FWB type situation.

Hello! I am Asian, 5'10", and on the rounder end, but working out and diet is helping :P. I have a full time job but I work remote, so I have a good amount of free time on my hands.

My main Kink interests are impact play, bondage, sensory deprivation and overloading, but I also enjoy anything that involves a bit of humiliation, deprivation, and while not 100% related, cuddling. I also have a huge soft spot for public play with toys or rope under clothing. Toys/Tools pic are on my profile.

In terms of what I am looking for, I am looking someone with similar interest and a sexual drive as active as mine that I can plan and execute impact play and bondage sessions with. No height requirement, and so long as you are legally of age and not old enough to be my mother, I am fine with it. That said, I am looking for someone that is of healthy weight for their age and height, as this will allow for more ample bondage positions and poses, and would be nice to have a workout partner. Also disease free. I want to have a discreet partnership between me and my playmate, and hope my partner would prefer the same. I am open to long term, but short term is all I am looking for at the moment. She is preferably also interested in trying new things, and is open to collaborating on different ideas for play.

For obvious reasons, everything we do or plan will involve both of our consent. I do have a place of my own, just do not expect to be invited to play on the first couple sessions until ample amount of trust is built up.

Hard Limits are anything involving nonconsensual actions, blood, diseases, animals, children, permanent mutilation and scarring, sharp objects, shit, and anything else that would require or lead to hospitalization. Anything not mentioned has either been untested, or is acceptable.

I am based out New Jersey, Central to be a little more specific (roughly 20 ~ 30 minute drive of Sandy Hook Beach), but I am open to the New York City ( NYC ), Philadelphia ( Philly ), and anywhere that is within a reasonable amount of driving; I will let you be the judge of what is considered reasonable.

While I am open to online play, it would be with the stipulation that there is some form of media sharing on a regular basis after the foundation has been set, or intention of moving it IRL.

Let me know if you are interested, stay safe, and have fun.