Hi all. I'm hoping to find a submissive girl, aged 24-34, to build a loving, long-term D/s relationship with. I'm interested in a 24/7 dynamic that would evolve into a TPE, with strict rules and consequences for breaking them, but I also enjoy the softer aspects of doting on a sub. I'm interested in traditional, 1950's household elements as well. Open to start off online, but must be willing to relocate in the future. I'd like someone to settle down with.

About me

I'm (ethnically) Dutch with dark hair and dark eyes, bearded, about 5'7-5'8 and physically fit. I'm childfree, atheist, monogamous, non-smoker, have social/left-wing politics. I have some years of D/s experience under my belt.

I'm passionate about art & stories, in film, literature, (indie) games. I like to paint, draw, sculpt with clay, write poetry & fiction, and enjoy visiting art museums. I have a career as a designer, but also do a fair amount of research work. Other interests include weight lifting, boxing, going for walks, nature, cooking and enjoying good & healthy food, fashion, and the cosiness of huddling up around a board game (and beating your ass). Some of my future goals are to build a large terrarium/vivarium, publish a book, run my own studio, reach my physical strength goals, and to build furniture for our home.

Looking for

The woman I'm looking for is a book lover and an artist (in the broadest sense of the word, whether it's digital or traditional art, writing, music, dance, theater). She's a feminine type, a real girly girl. Smart, but also smart enough to let me lead. Her ideal future consists of a cozy life; I want to come home to the scent of freshly baked goods and a woman covered in paint or clay or poetry. I'm very attracted to short women with dark hair and dark eyes.

Emotional health is important to me. I don't scare away from tougher subjects or emotional baggage, but being able to take care of yourself is a must. Someone who talks when something's the matter. I can't be with a closed book.

BDSM

Main kinks/interests: domination, humiliation, degradation, shy girls that embarrass easily, spanking, impact play, roleplay, age play, fear play, consensual non-consent, free use, domestic servitude, high protocol, obedience training, total body ownership.

Limits: brats, age regressing to toddler behavior, involving others/sharing, scat, permanent damage, dangerous edge play (e.g. hard choking; I'll only play-pretend these things).

Tell me some of your interests or future goals? You can message me here, or find me on FetLife (ProtectNPossess) or on Tumblr (protect-and-possess). I have a (semi-anonymous) photo on my Tumblr. Full-face photos will be exchanged in conversation. Hope to hear from you!