Was I raised by people with large vocabularies... why yes, yes I was, why do you ask?

I am looking to close out the year and open the new the right way, by meeting someone new and having fun conversations, getting to know about each other, turning each other on, and doing all the kinky fun BDSM stuff we both enjoy.

I am a 57 year old, Married, ENM/Poly, Dom and/or Daddy type person. I am 5' 10", have blue eyes, and brown hair that is about half grey — I know how old I am and I like to own it. I am lightly disabled and walk with a cane... but it does have hot rod flames on it!

I am an engineer — I write software and design electronics, I love to read and learn, I watch too much TV, and I love pop culture. I don't game as much as I like, but if you do I want to know everything! I love talking and conversation, and learning about what the people I care about know. I wrote a novel a while back, and if you look at my profile you can see I sometimes write BDSM erotica.

In terms of kink I view myself as a Flexible Dom, I don't have a set style. Instead I want to get to know you, what turns you on, what your fantasies are, your kinks, etc... and then use them against you. I want to work with you to craft the experience you want/need. It can be gentle and mild all the way through rough and stern, and everything in between.

I enjoy a wide variety of kinks including impact play (I am told I give a great spanking), giving orders and tasks, bondage, various forms of sensation play, giving anal, CNC, and more! I am also compatible with most kinks. My hard limits are scat, blood and other fluids, and soft limits may come up as we explore.

Sharing pictures and other ways to turn each other on when we aren't together is important to me (after you feel comfortable), so please be ok with that before you respond. Nor am I looking for anything online. This is about meeting up and being together physically. Please be local to the greater Portland area, or visit regularly.

Also I expect to share verification pictures within the first 48 hours, this is non negotiable. Feel free to ask me what that means.

Tell me the name of your favorite song when you reply.

To get a taste of what I can be like, here are a couple of lightly fictionalized versions of things I have done:

• Nice (MDom) (D/s) (Anal)
• 90% True (MDom) (Huml) (CNCish)