I'm a kinky, middle aged Dom seeking an every day chat companion that I can shape into my ideal woman.

I like developing lasting dynamics that are built on friendship and grow organically. I've had real success doing just that multiple times in the past 4 years.

I'd like you to delegate key decisions to me (what to wear, eat, what color to paint your nails.) I'd also like you to learn what I like and send me the best memes, news stories, songs, and erotica.

I'm a professional writer, so I'm a great listener that asks quality follow-up questions. I don't ghost.

As a lifelong Dom, I have a keen interest in power - psychiatrists, doctors, cult leaders, etc. Consent is important to me, but you need to go into this with the realization that I am charming and I typically get what I want, or a negotiated version thereof.

It doesn't matter to me if you're a first time submissive, neurodivergent, or a BIG PERSONALITY. I have experience with all kinds of submissives and I'll be a steady hand and good influence regardless.

I have had dynamics with submissives in far-flung time zones, so don't hesitate to reach out if you're far away. I'm a little outside of Boston, so I'm on Eastern time.

My kinks are wide and varied. Bondage, guided pain, forced orgasm and denial, DDlg, and many more. Quite a few are dark and taboo. I am a sadist and a voyeur, unapologetically.

I also like legs and feet quite a bit. Not sure what constitutes a fetish, but they're turn ons.

Rest assured, I won't treat you like a sex worker. BDSM is about power exchange and I'm not sex obsessed.

I'm married, but open online. It's important to me that if you're partnered, it's ethical.

My favorite musician is Taylor Swift. Spotify says I'm in her top 3% of listeners and I can vouch for the fact that she puts on a hell of a show.

I love horror and action movies. I love British comedies. I hike, play tennis, and sightsee when the weather is nice.

I'm politically liberal and I have actively supported numerous causes in my life. I'm also a spiritual person that has a moral anchor.

If you read this far and you're interested, hit me with a message and let me know your name, age, and favorite singer.