I'm here to find awesome, like-minded, dominant people. If the vibe is right, finding a partner would be neat, but there is only one way to find out :) I put quite a bit of effort into detailing who I am, so anyone can get a good impression. I'll answer every message, so don't be shy. c: Â
About me: Â
26yr old alternative-looking nerd from Germany who is currently studying philosophy In my free time, I enjoy listening to music (current top 30: https://imgur.com/a/kQUrCEY ), playing drums, working out, reading, longboarding, and gaming (boardgames, TCGs e.g. Magic: The Gathering, videogames). (I'm keenly aware that 90% of those hobbies involve sitting around; I'm totally cool with doing stuff together that involves not sitting around as well haha)
Outside of hobbies, I spend a lot of time thinking about philosophy, minimalism, non-conformity, and good food. (and kinky stuff, obviously c: )
When it comes to personality, I'm quite value-driven, holding honesty, fairness, and openness above all. I enjoy conversations and tend to talk a lot once I'm comfortable with someone. You could say I'm an introvert until somebody shows interest in me, then Im very much an open book. I'm very comfortable talking about „deep“ and serious topics, but equally on board with goofing around and having a good time not taking everything too seriously. Not aiming for a career; I'm mainly trying to find happiness on this big floating rock, which for me includes a loving relationship with someone who makes me feel like I'm at home. Oh, and I love cuddling. c:
Style-wise I'd describe myself as a minimalist grunge/alternative. Long brown hair with a short sidecut and a short beard. I have enough abs to qualify as fit, but not quite buff. Not a fan of seeing myself on pictures, but I included some regardless because I'm very generous. :p https://imgur.com/a/W7Pk74K Â
Whats attractive to me:
People who are trying to be themselves, who question norms and tend to think critically, people who laugh a lot, and are able to be both serious and silly, depending on what the situation calls for. People with strong values and open minds. People who see the small beauty in the world and don't mind sharing it with someone who struggles to do so. A similar taste in music would be nice, a bit of nerdiness doesn't hurt either. :) Humans are visually attractive to me if they do their own thing. A smile does a lot, as does paying attention to visual appearance. A distinct style is a plus, but honestly, attraction for me is mainly based on the personality; good looks won't hide hideous traits. Â
Kink-stuff:
Despite my quite detailed list of kinks, I don't view each and every single kink as a necessary requirement, more so as a list of things that can be explored together. As long as you're interested in me as a person, being decidedly dominant in bed is the only „kinky" thing I truly long for. : ) Â
My (current) kinks: armpit worship, (light) ballbusting, chastity, cowgirl, creampie cleanup, cum, degradation, domination, edging, exhibitionism, feet, foot worship, grinding, humiliation, orgasm control, public, rimming, scent, self facial, sniffing smelly socks sneakers, spitting, swallowing cum, sweat, teasing, verbal humiliation and degradation, watersports Â
Curious: post-orgasm torture/riding, strap-ons Â
Hard-Limits: 24/7 / TPE (doesn't include not cumming), permanent appearance change, cigarettes, vomit, extreme pain, needles, blood, sounding, ageplay, sleep control, findom (don't try to sell me shit; I'm looking to have a good time with someone, and going bankrupt doesn't seem like a good time). Â
If any of this sounds like someone you'd enjoy, feel free to hit me up! c: I look forward to seeing what comes from this. Also, please don't fake or ghost people; its a waste of time for both parties.
Regards Yannik c:
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