I want a sub/slave who will go through a lot for my satisfaction. I want someone who is driven by being humiliated, dehumanized, degraded, deprived of pleasure or even basic needs solely for my pleasure. Someone who wants to be treated worse than most other subs and who wishes to dedicate herself to me. I take things slowly and I am understanding and educated but extremely strict and cruel as a Dom.

I am not looking for your typical D/s dynamic with silly play and fun. What I do is completely different and requires only a specific type of partner.

First about me: I’m an educated individual in the research field. Highly career-driven and want to make the world a better place kind of occupation and dedication. I enjoy good discussions about politics, economics, science and I want someone who can keep up such a conversation. I’m fit and enjoy running and the gym while being highly sociable and outgoing.

You: someone who knows what they’re doing in life and has things in place. I am not looking for someone doing this to get their life in order— quite the opposite. I want someone who is intelligent and cares about her body. It is important for me to feel that intellectual stimulation when we talk. I’m very chill and friendly when casual.

Kink: Now this is where things take an extreme and dark turn. I practice what I call a systematic and controlled degradation of one’s lifestyle quality through extreme control and deprivation. I will be extremely supportive when it comes to your career, family and education— these come first and there is no doubt that I want you to be the absolute best you can be! You wish to be the CEO of Apple in the future? Great! Let’s help you in whatever way to get there!

However, there will be a mutual understanding that you are ultimately there to please me however I like, whenever I like. I enjoy the extreme sides of things such as TPE, humiliation, degradation, bondage and many many more. My intention is to slowly degrade your comfort and take away the small things you would normally enjoy. I’m talking taking away furniture, sleep, food, social interaction, whenever I please. Even basic things will have to be earned, like having a bit more food because you’ve been kept hungry, or sleeping in a bed once in a while, going out and being allowed to spend more money etc. I would never intend to damage you emotionally though and proper provisions and aftercare would be in place to assure that.

Essentially, I would treat you like the best boyfriend would, we would have great chats and laugh about things, or discuss how work was that day, all while you might be kept cold and tied up on the floor in utter degradation. Kneel on the floor and wait for me to give you my scraps at dinner time and the next day we both dress up for an expensive restaurant and look like the most elevated and classy couple in there. This is the duality I enjoy in someone.

I’m looking for someone who wishes to completely give herself away like that and who absolutely prioritises my pleasure over hers. I don’t need you to have experience in any of this, but to genuinely wish to build towards that. I will treat you like a friend before anything so if you are just looking for a one off don’t bother. I am in the UK and would prefer someone in the same time zone but that’s not a must. I travel a lot for conferences so chances are I can meet you irl. But this is something proper for me that I can even see going into marriage if I find the absolutely ideal person.

If you are the perfect combination between success, intelligence, beauty and extreme submission and masochism, feel free to dm me telling me more about yourself and your thoughts on this. I won’t reply to short messages that don’t show effort. See you on the other side!