Let me introduce myself, I am 35 male about 5'11" 200 pounds, fit and I work out (almost) daily, I am working on sculpting my body. I swim one hour every day, so I am definitely more muscular on my top half. But I'm working on my whole body. I am white and am well endowed and girthy (I don’t mind sharing once we establish some sort of connection.)

About my kinks: I've been into BDSM for nearly two decades (18 years and going) l've collected a literal closet full of toys, toys of every kind... plugs, remote toys (lush and hush to name a couple), beads, gags, masks, costumes, full body latex suits (different kinds with different openings) several clit clips, nipple claps, ben-wa balls, spread bars, cuffs, rope, bondage wax, blind folds, ear muffs and I am probably forgetting half, and I know how to use each and every one of them safely. I love control, and I can't mention control enough. Orgasm control denial and edging are some of my favorite things.

I love to give attention and treat my play partner with a lot of care. Anal training being up there on my kink list, that includes gaping as well and plugging. I love TPE and CNC however its something I take my time to do am not looking to rush anything this wouldn’t be something we do unless we’re very much on the same page, and I have a fantasy I want fulfilled and I'm open to learning new kinks and also exploring each my partner. I would also like to start online and if we click we'll see where it goes.

I'm an adult, in every word, I have a career, and am home owner, I have several bank accounts and retirement savings. I have my shit figured out :)

I am very empathic and would like someone who is the same. I work in a corporate environment and I can travel a lot and do so on free time. My only issues traveling long distance are my kitty cats that would need sitting.

I am an educator by trade, I love history and a bunch of nerdy shit I cannot begin to enumerate I am willing to exchange recent selfies.

I'm looking for someone who needs punishment and pleasure and enjoys edging as much as I do. I'm not looking for a specific age range but between 21-45 is likely where we'll connect the most. I like someone I want to dominate sexually, psychologically, and physically.

If you have any questions ask away. If I don't hear from you I hope you find what you're for and have your fantasies fulfilled!