Have you been looking into being submissive or trying to find someone to submit to? I know how tricky it is to find the right person. A dominant that uses and controls you but also cares. Someone you can trust yourself to so you can truely surrender.

Let’s start with a bit about me shall we? That way, you can move on if it doesn’t appeal to you. Or, more likely, you’ll know what I offer before I tell you what I want from you.

There’s no way around the fact that I draw attention in most places. I’m tall (even for a Dutch man), dark blond and athletic. I have a demanding job where I’m in control of groups of people. Taking charge has always come naturally to me and people tend to quickly listen and fall in line with what I tell them to. Those that decide to oppose my point of view find a listening ear (as sometimes these people have a point) and if their opposition has no merit a swift conclusion.

When i started out exploring submission dynamics, I quickly learned from submissives I had how few people are dominant by nature. You probably know something about that, but it’s important to understand i’m not playing the role of one. I’m strict, which you may find out at your own peril. Obedience should be something you crave and want as your way of life.

Now on to you: if you’re eager, you should reach out for sure. I’m looking for the right attitude above all else. If you find enjoyment in submission and obedience and are excited to be controlled, I can work with you. I don’t mind brats at all. If you are one you’ll find yourself quickly melting into the obedience you hope to find comfort in. Your age is of less importance than your personality. I’ve worked with plenty of kinks that some may consider extreme, so you’re welcome to share your desires with me. If you’re new to this, I’d be happy to train you. I have done so in the past and think it makes for some of the best subs.

Due to the nature of my work, there may be occasional days or weeks where I have little time as i’m abroad or am slightly more off the grid than people tend to be. I’m open to both online and people close to me. Even if you’re not close, my travels may afford the opportunity to meet in time.

Send me a message in which you tell me a bit about you and your biggest fantasy. Of course, you may also send me any questions you have.