To talk briefly about me, I have been a part of this lifestyle for closer to a decade now. And to talk about roles, I am aware that even the single word "Dominant" can mean a number of things based on the person who is using it. Hence, I won't use a label here. Instead I will tell you what works me for - Control.
To be honest about it, that's possibly by biggest kink and whatever else is there is somehow, in some shape or form, is connected to the central idea of control. Be it bondage, impact play, TPE, humiliation, degradation, exhibitionism (within the boundary of safety of course) or sensory deprivation. It all circles back to Control.
Having said that, let me briefly touch upon what I am seeking. I am seeing a biological born female. More power to those who don't identify as such or seeking otherwise, but it's a personal preference. Alongside that, I don't believe in getting physical from get go. I believe kink generates in mind that finds it's expression in body.
So I am seeking someone who is willing to have a conversation to start with, establish a safe and healthy bond first before seeing where the whole flow takes us. Existing experience doesn't make a lot of difference to me since it can be just as much of a baggage as it can be a boon. So how you look like, what your age is - those aren't the deal breaker as much as what your interest in the lifestyle is.
Finally, I will mention my limits - Blood, scat, gore, vore, sharp objects, permanent marks, emotional damage and anything illegal.
I will leave it at that for now. If you find this post even mildly interesting, let me know and we can connect. Have a great time out there!
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