I work in data analytics. I'm introverted, independent, and imaginative and like reading (my favorite authors are Ottessa Moshfegh, David Foster Wallace, Shirley Jackson, Haruki Marukami, Derrida, and Jeffrey Eugenides), writing transgressive fiction, watching movies (I'm a bit of a cinephile---my favorite directors are Catherine Breillat, Micheal Haneke, Noah Baumbach, and Whit Stillman (I also love new extremity and horror movies)), cooking, and exercising. If you share these interests, that is a big plus.

I also can be overly analytical and have OCD. I'm blonde (dark blonde), fit (size 8), and very reserved, yet a direct communicator. People tell me I have dark, morbid, dry humor. Those who understand it think I'm hilarious; others find it creepy. It takes me awhile to warm up to people and I prefer slow-burn relationships to fast-paced. I don't smile in photos, so you'd ideally not be perturbed by my cold, lifeless selfies.

Would like
- Someone located near upstate NY (don't necessarily want to meet up right away but please don't contact me if location will be a problem for us meeting up initially (I'm not interested in hooking up in a hotel the first three times we meet (sorry))).
- Attractiveness is a plus but my taste is typically rather unconventional, so please send a photo with your chat request.
- Preferably college-educated (I have several masters degrees).
- To take it slow and not have someone be overly demanding, pressuring.

My fetishes (top 10 for receiving)
- Control
- Being overpowered
- D/S
- Discipline
- Domination
- Hair pulling
- Hairbrush spanking
- Punishment
- Face slapping, biting
- Being told I'm a good girl haha

Not into:

- Degrading language (like slut or whore---sorry, these words have too much trauma packed into them for me (was raised in highly religious family)).

- Scat or anything to do with the toilet.

- Multiple partners.

- Cuckholding.

- Anything that would make me look ugly.

- Sharing. :-(

Looking for ages 30

I won't send nudes or cyber. I won't sign any contracts or "get a glass of water." No offense, but I don't like bald guys or beards haha. Don't bother if you're located over five hours away. I'm looking to meet people with similar kinks and go from there. Chat me with your photo if it seems like we'd make a good dynamic---if it's clear you copy/pasted some blanket message you send to everyone, I will reject the chat. Also will not respond to messages.

If you look or act anything like K from Nymphomaniac Vol. 2, then you are 100% my type.