The culture I come from holds sex as Taboo and something punishable. No need to mention kinks, that is far removed from public perception. I've been lucky enough to experience a kink dominated lifestyle for the last decade or so, and building up on that I consider myself well educated in the realm of kinks. I've reached a point in my life where I am searching for a long term, Monogamous, partner in kinky, and vanilla crimes.
Me: Caring, empathetic, responsible and someone who holds respect and morality in high regards. I am a shareholder of and hold an executive position in an engineering firm working with steel. I'll definitely have all our metal bondage needs managed. My roots are heavily tied to my locale and I have many responsibilities and obligations here. I am also a mental health advocate and have been in therapy myself for over 2 years now. I am well equipped to manage most mental health issues and for most my adult life have been a safe heaven for those looking for understanding, something I take great pride in.
As a kinkster, I am a mix between an Owner, a Caregiver and a Sadist, all stemming from my need for sensuality and possession. I like to build the people around me up, and for my partner I equally enjoy breaking them down. My partners become my canvas, with feelings and sensations the paint. Of course all of this is done safely, with proper aftercare and with communication as the cornerstone. Living where I do, I've been the first kinky experience for a few of my past partners. I firmly believe that kinks are an individual experience, with our partners nothing more than a guide. As such if you are new to kinks, rest assured I am well equipped to point to proper resources.
But please, dont just take my word for it. I come with references, so you are free to verify that I am who I claim to be and further more that I am safe to play with.
I believe for any relationship to work there needs to be commitment, and I come with that in spades. Online and LDRs can only work if there is open communication and regular contact. As such shared activities are important to me, whether that be watching shows, movies, anime, reading books together or playing games to having constant chats and calls.
It's a long shot that I'm searching for but I am open to adding experiences along the way. If you are interested in what you've read so far: Lets get to talking, shoot me a DM or a chat. Unread Notifications are my bane so I'm usually very quick to reply.
Hope you have a wonderful day and remember to stay safe out there.
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