Hi,

thanks for visiting my post :)

First, what am I looking for?

A friend around my age to casually talk and explore kink with, preferably in Zurich, so talking in person is not out of question. I really can't connect with people over text, so short chats are welcome but I don't expect them to turn into something longterm. The exact details of our dynamic I'm open to explore :) I'm also open for a relationship but that's not a focus.

But now about me:

I'm 26, 6'3" (190cm), slightly on the curvier side (93kg) (currently working on that though and that 100kg Benchpress will bow to me soon), blond curls, blue eyes, big smiles that throw many wrinkles in my face :D I'm happy to share a picture over chat.

I'm a mix of an energetic person and a calm person. Sometimes I love telling stories, being the center of attention and making people have a good time, other times I love being silent and just listening and observing. I like the feeling of looking back to your past and seeing that you've grown. I like to throw myself at challenges and see how I handle things and what I can learn from new uncomfortable situations.

When it comes to being submissive, I love to please people. Making people happy brings me joy. Talking kinks, I am generally openminded and don't judge, so I like trying out new things with you (within reason obviously). To put some general labels, I like orgasm control and slight humiliation. I'm getting more into anal (recently ordered my first anal toys). I fantazise about pegging but have no experience so far. The thought of you sliding into me and seeing your expression kinda drives me crazy though. I find CEI very arousing and would love to try chastity with you. I further like the risk of outdoor stuff and the adrenaline rush that comes with it. In addition, I'm slightly masochistic and in general like the feeling of different sensations. I might be bi-curious but that is still under development :D

My dominant part is less present, but I'm looking forward to maybe explore that with you. It still revolves around me pleasing, but I do really enjoy being in charge with that and making someone melt through please.But I definitely don't want you to be my kink dispenser. I'm looking to develop a friendship beyond just kink with you where we don't only turn to each other, when I'm (or you) are horny. I'm also fine however if our topics revolve around our kinks or experiences mostly. Just not a play-only thing.

Talking non-sexuality related things, I'm currently doing my PhD. So I tend to talk a lot about that ;) I also work too much... Besides that, I enjoy cooking, cycling, going to the gym. I want to get more into cardio so running and swimming is up on my to-do list. I also like walking through art museums or whatever event I stumble upon (flea markets, food markets, you name it). I like my cozy days with tea and reading a book and my wild days of staying out till 7am in the morning. Other than that, I always like to try new things and I often join my friends in their activities that they want to show me. I'm also really into tech, so everything technology fascinates me.

I feel like that's already on the border of too much for an introduction, so feel free to message me and let's have a chat :)