I'm searching for something I have yet to find: a sleepless love. The type of love that consumes you so much that you can't focus. I want security, loyalty, trust, vulnerability, and passion - things I've always been able to give yet have never been able to receive.

There are many nuances I could list to describe myself, but sometimes, it's more fun to learn about someone organically. Maybe you'll find some small details about me that I have yet to recognize and will become ours. I will give you some insight into who I am.

Sometimes described as serious or intimidating but really just deeply analytical and internally restless. I'm career-focused and educated, a professional. I enjoy a lot of hobbies that are everchanging, hiking is not one of them.

I am hopefully looking to find a dominant person. I would consider myself submissive or switch at times. I like being controlled, as I always control my professional life. I have a high libido and need someone to match this. Sexual and physical compatibility is just as important as emotional compatibility. Fair warning, though: I can be challenging and have yet to be broken. I enjoy various things such as CNC, free use, rough play, and many others. I do have limits we can discuss.

I'm white, 5'5 on a good day, curvy in the right places - all natural. Please don't lead with sex, I do not jump right into this dynamic. I want you to crave my mind, it's my most important possession.

Ideally, you will be between 29-40, intelligent, attractive, and relatively fit as I try to keep myself in good shape, and this is something I would enjoy doing with my partner, single and emotionally available. Location is not a factor, hit I would eventually like an in-person dynamic. I need someone who needs me and wants the same neediness in return. If you're highly independent or can go days without talking, we won't be a good match.