Hey there,

I’m an Aussie guy, 34, who is getting back out into this world after some amazing online and IRL relationships.

What I’m looking for:

Hopefully to get to know someone first, a friend, a connection and then after that my sub, there are plenty of people keen for a one night online thing (which are great) but this is not that. To start I would prefer it to be online but I have listed my location if IRL ever becomes an option. Where you're from doesn't really matter to me as long as the timezones allow for reasonable chats.

Age wise I like someone who is 18-40 (I'm really not that picky when it comes to age as long as you're over the age of 18!). I’m 34 so definitely closer to that works but I was lucky enough to enjoy a relationship with an older woman when I was younger so I don’t want to rule out that inverse for me now.

A lot of the time I get questions like what is your style? I think each relationship develops differently. I value an open 2-way connection, a lot of honesty and to feed off your interest and excitement for this dynamic. I am less worried about the content of the relationship except for respecting each of our limits and more focused in finding comfort and energy from your and my comfort within each of our roles. Someone who satisfies my kinks would be amazing but the main part is submission over say dipping your elbow in salsa (my no.1 kink :D )

A bit about me:

- I love cooking (I don't think I am amazing at it but I love the idea of something new, although I suck at baking)

- Fantasy novels - Robin Hobb, Jasper Fforde, David Eddings, Helen Harper, just to name a few. I do enjoy and still ready quite a few of the more acclaimed YA series too because for shorter reads I get a lot of enjoyment out of them.

- Video Games/meida - I enjoy a lot of strategy games, as well as MMOs and fantasy RPGs. LOL, TFT, WOW, Xcom, Total War, Baulders Gate, Div Sin etc. Quite enjoy a lot of the pokemon series too, Nuzlockes.

- At times quite a playful and sarcastic humour are the moods I find myself in but I drawn to someone who is interested in a deeper level of emotional sharing and growth too. There are times where I value peace and quiet but once I feel like we have a good dynamic I feel like I could talk your ear off.

I am currently working on losing some of my chubby weight and getting healthy so it would be bonus points if you’re health focused, most of this is just holding onto that daily exercise gym/motivation but I guess being in Sydney and workout out together could be cool too?

Who you are:

kind, affectionate, can communicate, and who can make me laugh...someone who will spend time with me in voice calls/texting each other. I really want to build something meaningful and lasting. Trust is so very important but honesty is the number one thing for me. Sometimes you’re just not up for the life, I know there will be days I’m not either

Share with me your passions, your trust and together we can make our time on this big rock a little more fun and meaningful