Hi. This is more of an exploratory post for me because I am switchy but usually lean on the dom side. However when exploring what tasks doms give to their subs I noticed that a lot of them were not sexual at all but focused more on the wellbeing and maintenance of the sub. I’m talking about tasks like “must exercise X many minutes per week” or “must shower everyday”. This struck a chord with me because I know I thrive in a structured environment, but I really struggle to enforce that structure on myself. Just as one example, I know that routine meditation is really helpful for me and puts me in a relaxed head space, but I struggle to adhere to a consistent meditation schedule. The thought of someone else helping me achieve that structure seems really great to me and I feel like I could form a really deep and strong bond with that person.

That being said, I am not expecting (nor do I want) you to be my mom or nanny - I have a successful professional career, I’m hygienic, and I take care of myself. I just like the thought of giving some control away to someone who cares about me.

Sexually, I think I can fill the role of sub quite well! I have a big praise and exhibitionist kink so I love getting attention and showing off for the right person. My favorite thing in a relationship is pleasing my partner - their satisfaction is my satisfaction! We can talk about more kink and limit details if you reach out.

About me - I am 5’ 10”, brown messy hair, green eyes, muscular build (see profile picture, I can provide additional pics), cute face. Having grown up in a rural area I love nature and being outdoors. In my free time I like to rock climb and exercise. I like reading (always looking for some good prose authors) and watching good films. I appreciate art in any form and I’ve wanted to pick up a creative hobby but I haven’t made the jump yet.

About you: 22-26 (exceptions can be made), ideally lives near me, gentle domme, smart and driven, not looking for a one off thing