I've been exploring kink since I was a teenager. I've learned a lot about kink and myself and I am still actively learning to this day. I am currently looking for a female sub that is into control, tasks, training, and in between the kink having some general conversations about our vanilla lives. Over the years I have found that making the vanilla chats help make a connection and make the kink that much more enjoyable. I'm not too picky as long as you are female, don't have to be a model but care about how you look and take care of yourself, don't care what experience you have or don't have, be open to trying new things and exploring. I usually find that I click with women in their late 20s or older more but I'm open to younger as well.

What can I offer? Wisdom and life experience from 41 years of life. Guidance and goal setting for kinky and vanilla things. A friendly ear to listen to you if you need it or to laugh at a funny joke that you heard.

Some kinks I enjoy include but are not limited to: orgasm control, forced orgasms, tease/denial, anal, nipple play, stretching, insertions, predicaments, impact play, mild pain, wardrobe control, hidden public, bondage, humiliation, degradation, rules, and I'm sure there are others too but that should give you an idea of what I'm into.

Outside of kink I'm av average guy, I'm 5'11", ~210lbs, average to slightly athletic build. I enjoy the outdoors, building stuff, cooking, and of course eating the good food. I work in the construction industry so I usually am in be early and up early. If it matters to you I am married to a woman who is vanilla and doesn't care for kink at all which is why I'm here looking to scratch that kinky itch.

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