Let me introduce myself, I am 35 male about 5'11" 200 pounds, fit and I work out (almost) daily, I am working on sculpting my body. I swim one hour every day, so I am definitely more muscular on my top half. But I'm working on my whole body.

About my kinks: I've been into BDSM for nearly two decades (18 years and going) l've collected a literal closet full of toys, toys of every kind... plugs, remote toys (lush and hush), beads, gags, masks, costumes, full body latex suits (different kinds with different openings) several clit clips, nipple claps, ben-wa balls, spread bars, cuffs, rope, bondage wax, blind folds, ear muffs and I am probably forgetting half, and know how to use each and every one of them safely. I love control, and I can't mention control enough. Orgasm control denial and edging are some of my favorite things.

I love to give attention and treat my play partner with a lot of care. Anal training being up there on my kink list, that includes gaping as well and plugging. I love TPE and CNC however its something I take my time to do am not looking to rush anything and I have a fantasy I want fulfilled and I'm open to learning new kinks and also exploring each my partner. I would also like to start online and if we click we'll see where it goes.

I'm an adult, in every word, I have a career, and am home owner, I have several bank accounts and retirement savings. I have my shit figured out :)

I am very empathic and would like someone who is the same. I work in a corporate environment and I can travel a lot and do so on free time. My only issues traveling long distance are my kitty cats that would need sitting.

I am an educator by trade, I love history and a bunch of nerdy shit I cannot begin to enumerate I am willing to exchange recent selfies.

I'm looking for someone who needs punishment and pleasure. I'm not looking for a specific age range but between 21-45 is likely where we'll connect the most. I like someone I want to dominate sexually and physically.

If you have any questions ask away. If I don't hear from you I hope you find what you're for and have your fantasies fulfilled!