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48 [M4F] #Germany - Dominant guy searching for a submissive partner (want to start just online and we decide later if we step out of anonymity if we both feel it)
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PsychologicalDrag111 is a male age 48 looking for a female in Germany
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Hey, I am looking for a submissive woman for a kind of intense online education.

I wrote that post right down without a lot of formatting and sorting, so It could be a bit confusing, but for me this is more real what I feel and what I am addicted to, it feels more pure this way.

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You should be someone who derives pleasure from giving pleasure to someone like me. Not dependent on certain individual actions, but to see your lust satisfied by following rules, performing rituals, completing tasks.

So I shouldn't have to think about how often I ask for something, do you like what I ask for, are you satisfied with what I ask for? I want to be free and I want you to want me to be.

Figuratively speaking, I want to put a kind of corset on you that keeps you comfortable but doesn't smother you. You give me tools in a kind of toolbox that I can use on you. From now on, I can use these tools (in the figurative sense) at any time.

Of course, I respect your boundaries and I also want to get to know your preferences. We talk about rules, rituals, punishments and also tasks that you do for me, you have enough say so that it doesn't overwhelm you at any time. But you can give me as much freedom as you are willing to give.

Our common goal should be that I make you my perfect "EVERYTHING", the perfect partner, lover, submissive, servant, ...

We have to decide individually and adapt to each other what the components are, what tools (rituals, rules, tasks) we use.

My way of educating you is different.

The whole thing should slowly spread in your everyday life, unnoticed by those around you. Fulfill yourself without it being publicly visible to your friends/family. I am not interested in others being part of it. You do everything just for me, I don't want to expose you, make you look like a slut or share you in any way.

It's a total togetherness, the most intense form of a two-person relationship you can have, the rules and rituals, as well as the tasks make it unique. Punishments should never be on the agenda, you shouldn't have to look for loopholes, no excuses, it should always be clear that you are doing your best. Together we will work on making you my perfect sub.

The whole relationship, even if it's only online and anonymous for now, should feel like you're actually working towards a real goal. Even if you're aware that you're in different places and it's probably not realistic to expect that.

Whether it goes beyond conversations and small tasks and rituals and rules in everyday life, whether you become more intimate and open, time will tell. I will never push for anything, demand anything from you.

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About myself:

I am a german 48 years old dominant male, I had a few online-education-like relationships, It doesn't sound like this can be translated from german to english 1:1. So I have to explain, I see myself as her teacher, her partner, somebody that wants to have the above described. The sexual psychological top to bottom relationship with a person that wants to be the submissive part in it.

I am aware of my dominant kind since I am 20, but it was always in me. I had a lot roleplays in the beginning and there I realized that I have this dominant attributes. I my roleplay characters are very dark and different to my real life relationships. In my real life I want a very wholesome relationship to a women that is liking to be very submissive. I never mix it up with the roleplaying evil characters. You have to be aware of that if you read some of my roleplay-posts. (The Kinks listed in roleplayposts are only for Roleplaying)

Through the roleplaying i found a few people with whom I expanded the just talking about stuff to some kind of online-education-dom-sub games, with tasks and pictures and stuff. And I had some real affairs and real relationships in that kind of kinky way with Rules, Rituals, Tasks and stuff.

Sometimes later I decided that a "normal" vanilla relationship is nothing for me anymore.

And right now I found reddit to be a good place to find some dark role plays, good talks and Like-minded people.

Therefore I now want to try to find someone that's interested in some kind of Online-Dom like me. Not really thinking to find a suitable real partner but to have fun in between. More real then just roleplaying, a more closer relationship over the internet, like a long-distance intimate relationship maybe. And we'll see - maybe more.

But I'm not the type to push you into anything or expect anything. But if we both feel good about it, it can become more real. You at least should be open to more then just a talk.

Thanks for reading!

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If you are interested, please contact me via chat or by message. I am always interested to show you my world, my system of education and we will see if there is more.

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