I am a 28 year old Domme based in NYC, so NYC peeps from Brooklyn and lower Manhattan get some bonus points for being close. The scene on Staten is pretty small so I have doubts about finding anyone that local, but it would be a welcome surprise. I don't do online play, so unless you are available for irl play I am likely not the best match for you. The mainstays on my kink list are of course chastity and bondage. I will say that chastity is my very favorite and I have never gotten to participate as a keyholder in Locktober, so if you have that as a goal you have definitely scored some brownie points. I also really enjoy bondage, both light and more extreme. I love watching my subs struggle with no chance of escape. Even if it's not in a full scene, watching a movie at home is still far more fun with a struggling sub at your feet. One of my favorite kinds of scenes is tying a sub up tight and finding new and exciting ways to make them squirm and struggle. Some other kinks I enjoy are tease and denial, electro play, spanking and other forms of impact play, pegging, light cbt, overstimulation, and nipple play. I think it is important to get along on a personal level, so here are some of my vanilla interests. I am kind of a stereotypical nerd, I love comic books, dnd, and old school video games. As for looks, I am always down to exchange pics (but posting them within the post is not something I'm up to for privacy reasons). I am average height, plus size so a little heavy, and my style leans vintage. Most of my scene costume pieces are pretty goth, but on the day to day I'm a little more cottagecore than anything else. I think the dichotomy is fun! The best way to contact me is by using the Reddit chat feature instead of the message feature. For whatever reason my notifications get m