I'm really looking to get to know someone for a long term relationship that ideally would lead to marriage. I'm an american who is currently in europe for a little while, I do plan on returning to the US. So you can be from anywhere but should be open to moving to the US if you aren't from there. Since my location is in flux right now this would be online for a while.

The relationship I'm looking for is something like a 1950's household thing, not the 1950's aesthetic but in the sense that I'm unequivocally the one leading and making decisions. To what extent exactly this would apply we would of course work out, but you should be good with giving up control over much of your life. I enjoy being a mentor, and pushing you to be better not just for me but for yourself as well. I love the whole idea of training and transformation, such as bimbofication and pet play. I also love anal, so you need to be at least open to that. I am NOT into DDlg, just to be up front about that. Also if you're a big masochist it probably won't work as inflicting pain isn't really my thing.

More about me, I'm a good-looking single guy, 5'11", white, fit/thin build, salt and pepper hair. I like being outdoors and nature, I'd spend practically all my time in nature if I could. I like being active, hiking, swimming, dancing, biking, lifting weights. I work in tech, read a bit, play video games a bit, and like to learn, particularly about history and natural science.

About you: I am picky since I'm looking for something serious. Some minimum requirements: don't be fat(a little bit chubby can be ok IF you will commit to getting fit). 18-30, I could go a little bit older but you better be perfect otherwise. Nobody on the far left, as I'm a right-leaning moderate. You should be very kinky, really the fewer limits you have the better.