Greetings and I hope you find your search on Reddit to be of value and that you find that connection to alleviate that feelings of loneliness we are all experiencing. I am a tall, handsome successful gentlemen seeking a lasting long term connection. I am quite confident in my overall self. I know who I am and what I have to offer.

I am seeking married female 22 - 50 years young who considers herself aesthetically pleasing and confident in herself. I absolutely will consider all body types I will know when I see you if I have a natural draw to you or not. My ideal partner is open to sexual intimacy, deep emotional intimacy and mental connection. This is about complete connection for both of us. I prefer a partner in the US but open to others depending on availability. A woman who enjoys dressing to excite always capture my attention. I consider myself very respectful of boundaries and seek the same in a partner. I have quite an above average libido and would enjoy finding someone who considers themself high libido as well. We can discuss what this means to us. I am seeking a woman who is mostly a submissive or curious about submission or simply an eagerness to please. Finally, a great transparent communicator is key to a strong relationship. None of these are hard and fast preferences but rather an insight into qualities I seek.

I'm a 39-year old Handsome successful white male. Aesthetically pleasing, of masculine stature, 6 feet to be precise. 190 lbs, fit, blue eyes, blondish well groomed hair with good hygiene. I workout out on near daily basis and lead an active lifestyle. I consider myself well-mannered, extroverted, and highly educated. I am a working professional with an insatiable drive to succeed. I have been married a number of years but simply lacking that intimacy on every level. I enjoy being active outdoors, traveling, athletic competitions, volunteering in youth organizations, random road trips, concerts and festivals, and socializing with others. I will start by recommending we exchange photos on here or telegram if you agree with me that physical appearance plays a key part in complete attraction. I take pride in my appearance and I think you will be pleased in my appearance.

I am at a point that I crave deep intimacy but believe I am no longer receiving it on a sexual, emotional or mental level. I don't meet many women organically due the taboo nature of being married and seeking outside relationships. I am very kind and passionate but I know my emotions need deep connection for a real relationship. I'm very, highly interested and confident in sex and my abilities. I am needing someone who craves that sexual connection coupled with emotional intimacy and shared interests.

I crave that long lasting deep connection we all know is possible but no longer are receiving. I have had both long term in person affairs and online only affairs.

You obviously are free to do whatever you want with your spouse but if we agree to explore this dynamic I prefer to be exclusive as emotions will be involved and neither of us deserves emotional injuries. I am not looking to change my situation due and I will also never ask you to leave your spouse for me.

I am always open to meeting if the logistics work out. There are certain factors that simply can’t be replicated online only.

I believe I offer emotional connection and someone who cares to get to know you on every level. Strong sexual intimacy - I have a strong libido. I also bring reliability and complete honesty. I want to be your biggest cheerleader and closest confidant.

I also bring experience with kink and fetishes. I have been told I have a patient soul and will always respect your boundaries. I will be monogamous with you other than my spouse but being in a dead bedroom that is of little concern. I want to provide you with sincere interest and attention on you on every single level. I have high energy and passion.

The specific list of sexual interestis quite long so I won’t list them here but know I’m well versed in multiple kinks and taboos. They focus on mutual pleasure and my taking control sexually. I want you to be able to shut your mind off and allow yourself to enjoy the sensations you’ve earned. I love everything from the soft and sensual to the intense and primal. My kink list is pretty exhaustive and am willing to discuss more in detail later. However I also have hard and soft limits like anyone should.

I'm a Dominant but non judgmental on your sexual desires and wants. I am an exhibitionist and voyeur. I like to experiment together to find what works for us. I expect sincerity and honesty. I believe in open communication. Very little part of our future sexual relationship is non-negotiable but I have hard and soft preferences. I will always respect your choices. Consent is important. Our physical, mental and emotional and psychological well-being always comes first before sex. We will not enter this agreement for only one person's gain. Everything should benefit the both of us. I am fluent in sarcasm but my love languages are quality time and physical touch. I believe making out and grinding is a lost art

Thank you for your interest! Please let me know your questions and tell me about yourself and what intrigued you when you message me.