Yes, this is a long post. But I know what I am looking for and know there are subs looking for this too. Maybe not for everyone, but if you can’t look for what you truly desire, why bother? And just because my post isn’t full of graphic descriptions, don’t think you can’t get all the kink, fetishes and other things you need and desire, I just prefer to discuss them in a private chat. And my idea of D/s is giving and pushing the sub as much as she wants and can handle within her limits and limits are negotiable and can be ever changing and expanding. Relationships that work, grow, change and evolve.

You dream about it. Have fantasies about it. Maybe even have tried to find it, but the right Dom has been no where to be found. Your experiences have not been satisfying, you realize he isn’t a Dom, but a wannabe who wanted a quick thrill or maybe some one who simply wanted to use and abuse you one time and disappeared without satisfying your true needs. So that is why you need to keep reading.

I have been in the lifestyle a long time. Learned a lot, have done a lot and experienced a lot. While maybe being part of the true experience, domination isn’t just grabbing you by the hair, spanking you, forcing you to do anything a man’s dirty mind can come up with. It’s about getting inside a subs mind, learning her needs, her desires, her limits, giving her the ability to give up all the control she wants and needs too, giving her the discipline she needs and desires and what really makes her tick. When you find that, then she trusts you, willing and enthusiastically submits to you and then the real fun begins.

Me, I love kink. Have a very vivid imagination, have very few personal limits, have an open mind and plenty of experience to make all kinds of fun happen. I can be as kinky and wild as your desires want you to be. And I will respect your limits. I am white, clean, DDF, dad bod, educated and well read. And I understand how a true D/s relationship should work. A woman’s submission comes with certain responsibilities for the Dom. Tell me your fantasies and desires and let’s make them happen. I don’t care how mild or wild those fantasies are, I want you to live them.

You, be submissive, clean, DDF, open minded and have a desire to explore. I am not hung up on age, race, body type. Yes there has to be a physical attraction between us, but the dynamic, desires, and for me the control are big things for me. And I am open to lots of scenarios, from play partner to LTR, even an attached play partner if it can be done with no drama. Sub couples and cuck couples feel free to contact me and I am open to seeing if we can make your needs and desire be met.

So if you want the right kind of D/s and want to be able to explore, make your true fantasies come true and have the control, discipline, kink and a safe true outlet for that, send me a chat request or DM (chats preferred) and let’s see what happens. If you have questions, ask them and let’s explore the possibilities.

I am capable of leading you into and forming the type of D/s relationship you want and need.

And this post is for an in real life relationship. Getting to know each other on line is fine, but I am not looking for an online only situation. So be within a couple of hours of San Antonio, a regular visitor, or willing to relocate.