Hey! This is my first time writing an AD here, so be warned :D
SFW I am 21 years old and from Germany, ~178cm tall and have a normal body (meaning neither chubby nor very muscular). I am rather introverted and very calm. I do not get angry easily and i do not allow myself to get stressed more than neccessary. It probably is worth to mention that i do not want any children. I am very firm on this and currently looking to get a vasectomie done. As far as hobbys go I'd have to go with rather basic things like reading, gaming and spending time with family and friends. My interests however are a bit broader, as i mostly jump from one thing to another. Some topics that persist are nature, animals, politics and science. It is also only fair to say that i have struggled with, mainly, depression for a longer time, but currently i am doing quite well. So this mainly means i have experience with mental problems and also talked to quite a few others in similar situations. So, if you are struggling yourself currently, this is not a problem and we can discuss details how to provide a good environment anytime.
NSFW What am i looking for? As the title says, I am looking for a long term relationship that optimally will end in some kind of TPE. Of course this only works with ongoing consent from both sides. I am very interested in the TOTAL aspect of TPE. Meaning a 24/7 dynamic where I make every decision for us. I decide our social circle, money affairs, work, housing, food, activities and many things more. I mostly will take your opinions into account when making decisions, but not more. You will give me the authority to decide, which will also give you a sense of freedom. Of course there will also be punishments if you forget or ignore your place. There might also still be punishments so that you do not forget what a punishment is. However aftercare will also be very important. Bonus points if you are clingy :D, as I will be the center of your world and as such I will also do my best to spend as much time with you as possible. If we develope this relationship you can also be assured that i will never think about leaving you or betraying you. We are each others constant factor in life. Many other things may change but we will stay together. As far as explicit kinks go i am open to most things as long as it does not involve scat, openly public actions or something other than monogamy. We will need to see what works for us and discuss it in detail.
The real implementation of this can also be discussed if some elements are not what you are looking for. My general direction is clear but i am open to changing some specifics.
Please be open to relocation and visits first, so we can meet face to face sooner than later.
Hope to hear from you soon :)
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