I’m a 33 year old married Dom with several years of experience in online D/s relationships. I take being a dom seriously and love to build the connection. Kink and all of the other stuff means so much more with a connection. I want to learn about you and bring the best out in you as well.

I’m looking for someone where the connection is unforced and conversations come naturally. Shared interests definitely help but it’s not imperative. I hope to find someone who doesn't just want a D/s relationship but a close connection beyond that. I am perfectly happy starting and continuing online, as I have had very successful online relationships with D/s and a lot of what I look for works very well online. Good communication is key in these relationships so I want someone who is able to communicate often and openly, ideally where we can keep each other company during the day and speak on the phone/video when our schedules permit.

In terms of D/s, I am always very focused on the day to day control. I prefer control to be much more than just with sex, but also outside the bedroom. A relationship that goes towards TPE, where I have control over many aspects of your life including clothing, workout times, schedule, etc with kink intermingled in all of them. My goal is to learn everything I can about you including what makes you tick sexually and use all of that to make the dynamic as pleasurable as possible for you and me both.

Kinks:
Control that I described above which includes tasks and rules. Exhibitionism/semi-public play with tasks catering to them. Being sneaky or risky in public or around people. Bondage, impact play, anal, spanking, and orgasm control to name a few more. I have many others I haven’t listed, and not matching on all kinks is definitely not a dealbreaker.

About you:
I don't have many expectations in terms of who you should be, although I have always been attracted to women who are fit or are at least pursuing fitness lifestyle. Curves or a toned body are a plus, but having said all that, it’s not an end all be all so please don’t let that stop you from reaching out. As for me, I am 6’4 and enjoy working out and keeping myself in good shape. I am happy to verify myself early on in the conversation and will expect the same from you. My preferred platform is telegram and I like to verify with pictures pretty early on so we both can be comfortable.

If you have made it this far and any of this has piqued your interest please reach out. Whether you’re experience or completely new to BDSM and have been wanting to dip a toe in please reach out. I am excited to meet you!