Im a kind person. I heal for a job, I make music, I use my powers for good. But that side of me has lots of positive and supportive people…and I need us to build a relationship that takes satisfying the devil and supporting the more Proud Father Figure.

Because I have spent so much time reckoning with my own dark side, I know what works for people to face their own.

You’re maybe a little lost, insecure, maybe shy, carrying shame or trauma. You deserve to be loved even in your broken parts, those scary insecure parts. But for someone to genuinely want them… they’ll also want to exploit them. If we can accept that instead of fighting it, you’ll be by my side always.

We will have lots of fun, hilarious, affectionate and protective times together, sincere and affectionate. Still very much power exchanged but in a more supportive and guiding way… but then there will also be times your sacrifice is needed to satisfy my darker sides.

You thought you’d have to be independent, make plans and choices, decide when to listen to influences and when to break off.

But hopefully you will realize that… for everything I give you, for the gift of being with a Man who can make the world make sense… certain expectations around how you behave, what you sacrifice… that’s part of how I take care of you.

Either way you’re an adult choosing this who values the feeling of total ownership.

As few limits as possible will help you be the one I choose.

Kinks/Desired Themes: Abuse, Manipulation, Humiliation, Degradation, Objectification, TPE, Regret, Shame, Anal, Deepthroat, Facefucking, Brainwashing, Conditioning, Gratitude, Worship, Toilet Use, Scent and Body fluids, Punching, Slapping, Cutting, Eating Disorders, Choking, Fear, Whips, Crops, Canes, Water, Electricity, Pain, Chains, Stockholm

Im Darren. I'm a six foot and six inches tall, 35 year old Sadist TPE-leaning Dom with a strong interest in abuse themes within consensual relationships. Ive been doing this a long time. And I am exposed to peoples dark sides daily. Your demons are safe with me. I think love is extreme when it’s honest. I want us to have incredible honesty, openness, and a commitment to exploiting the dark edges of each other.

My work is in mental health, which is why Im very clear and direct up front. It means I have genuine appreciation and protectiveness toward the thing providing me with a service for my needs. Even if it looks a bit… shocking to others.

I’m going to lift the weight and stress and pain off of your shoulders. That feeling of being half-whole, of having sides of you that don’t have space to express themselves because they may be a bit dark or unhealthy. I’m going to teach you to see those sides in a whole new way.