Hello and thank you for stopping by my post! Buckle in it's gonna get long as I attempt to describe exactly who I'm looking for so that when the right person happens to read it, they just know we both want the same things. Easier said than done haha.

First a disclaimer. Words cannot express how important honesty and trust are to me throughout the entirety of any relationship like this I enter. So I never hide the fact that I'm married or that she is unaware of my adventures with the amazing subs I've met over the years. I know a lot of people feel strongly about this and I understand completely. The person I'm looking for will know exactly what I'm going through and feeling without me even needing to explain it because they have either been there or currently are there. If you're somebody who doesn't mind this fact or even enjoys it that's fine to. If be happy to include it in our play where I deem appropriate lol. Just please remember to have patience when life causes delays in our little world. I can't assure you I will make more than enough time for whoever my person is without a doubt.

I've been involved in this world for just under 20 years believe it or not. My first foray out into the depths was at 13 and I've never stopped learning and evolving ever since. I'm more than happy to dive into my resume lol. At this point I'm fairly experienced and very confident in what I want, like, and expect and have spent quite some time defining my own personal Dom style. Which I'm comfortable enough with that I have no issues adjusting my dial to accommodate just about any need my sub could ever think of or want.

So what do I like from my submissives? Let's cover that first so you don't have to waste your time if this doesn't sound like you. I'm not a brat tamer and my tolerance for bratty behavior is very low. Don't confuse playfulness with brattiness for the sake of defiance and the back and forth that can bring. It's great fun but I do not enjoy it with a heavily online element. To me it feels meaningless and a waste of time for everyone involved. My time and yours should be high on your priority listin my opinion. So for those reasons this is a hard no for me, it's just not what I'm after. You can be playful, we can banter, there is room for attitude and emotions and mood effecting willingness. But you need to know where the line is and be willing to reign it in when I say it's time to. That is my only non negotiable. Other than that I'm very open and accepting of everyone. I do best with those who are eager to please, eager to obey, and eager to be a good girl and earn that covered praise. My ideal partner has some depth to her kinks and fantasies to some extent. Blow job processes are wonderful but I would prefer more variety and areas to explore and expand on together. My partner will genuinely enjoy having me maintain a sense of control over certain areas of life. Like loving providing options for outfits that I make the decision on. Access to a wide array of nail polishes for application at my discretion. Someone who wants and needs to have that person to check in with and get permission for as much as we can manage. The domestic servant style is a good guideline for what I enjoy and tends to do well with me.

If you're still here fantastic! I'm sure you're curious about me. I lean into a softer and gentler style of domination generally speaking. I would much rather praise than punish. I want my sub to feel safe and cared for, and I enjoy applying strict rules and structure for her to use as her daily guideposts through life. I can assist with motivation for chores, work or whatever you need. I can assist with health or fitness goals. I can help keep you focused if that's what you need. I love all of that. You just have to fully give in and trust me to make the right decisions for you and you just have to follow my commands and instructions to the absolute best of your ability. Turn off your brain, let me carry your worry and anxiety and depression. It can't get to you nearly as easily with me in the way. That's always a big goal of mine. My own kinks are pretty damn vast and range from passionate primal fucking to sadistic shit that one should only share with somebody you completely and utterly trust. My personal no's are diapers, shit and animals. Anything else I'm open to at least discuss. And if something gets you excited but did nothing for me, I'll still happily include it.

Ugh this feels way too long already lol. There's too much important info damnit! Ok so. I don't really care what you look like. I'm more focused on how your submissiveness flows easily and comfortably with my dominance. That's the most important factor to me. Well that and obviously that we get along perfectly just as people lol. I'm happy to share my picture, I'm not shy at all and in my opinion I'm a good looking guy. So come decide for yourself lol. If you made it this far and you're considering sending a message... Just do it. That's how those magical experiences begin. You gotta take the leap. And really there's zero risk in taking a minute to come test my waters and see how I make you feel. At this point you got the critically important information. The next bit is just a couple more things that may matter to some.

I'm on the West Coast, PST. I've had success with every time zone. Work has me up super early and I'm bed typically not crazy late. I could care less about your age. Be 18 or be 77 or anything in between. If my perfect good girl is 54 I'll happily find a way to utilize that in some way in some kink of yours or mine lol. Don't be afraid of your camera. I live sending and recieving pictures that are sfw as well as nsfw. Include me in your day with them or short video snippets or voice notes. Be open to phone calls or maybe video calls. You can be shy but be able to overcome that fairly easily. Love animals and music and food. Have a brain with thoughts and opinions and the capacity to put effort into your side because I certainly will be. Be open, share freely and don't hold back just because it's early on, or you're afraid, or you have doubts. Just let all that crap go. I'm safe for you to be your true and real self. And newbies are always welcome with me. I'm very patient and love teaching🙂 and finally, I'm not opposed to real feelings or even eventually taking this into real life if that's the way things go I'm here for the ride!

Ok I gotta stop. Alright, let's see who can follow basic instructions just because it's the respectful thing to do lol. I prefer chats but messages are fine. In your first message please include: Your name or what you would like to be called. Your experience level Your relationship status What called to you about my post Your timezone Anything else specific that you are looking for that you feel is important that I know Your zodiac sign Favorite color And current favorite/go to song and why And finally one kink you have that you feel is unique to you or just holds a special place within your sexual identity and why you think that.

And then the rest will be up to fate 🙂 may everyone find the things that make them truly happy within their lifetime.